brokendreamz Posted June 23, 2011 Posted June 23, 2011 That's it really - her sense of humour, the companionship, the way we knew each other, her smell, the cuddles, the shard experiences over the last 8 years. I just miss her.
OhMittens Posted June 23, 2011 Posted June 23, 2011 I know the feeling, and hopefully it will get better with time.
smudge21 Posted June 23, 2011 Posted June 23, 2011 It always gets better over time. You can't force the healing, all you can do is let it happen!
Rea333 Posted June 23, 2011 Posted June 23, 2011 It's totally normal to feel this way. You were together 8 years. It's a long time. I was with one of my previous exes for 10 years. It was hard not to think of him, even after I met someone else. We grew up together. There's the old cliche again, but time really does heal all wounds. Or at least make things a bit more bearable. I'm getting to grips with the end of my two year relationship and although it's been tough, it wasn't as hard as the longer relationship. So I do empathise with you. Incidentally, I'm just over three months in and feeling ok actually. It got to lunch and I realised it was the first time I'd thought of him today. Progress me thinks! It was every waking moment at first, then every other moment, until it gets less and less. Even today when someone mentioned they visited the area he lives in, it didn't feel like taking a bullet. Again, progress. Chin up. Some days are good, some days are bad. Baby steps. Best wishes Rea
Kuite09 Posted June 23, 2011 Posted June 23, 2011 That's it really - her sense of humour, the companionship, the way we knew each other, her smell, the cuddles, the shard experiences over the last 8 years. I just miss her. I know exactly how you feel. My ex and I of 7 yrs didnt have the best relationship but we sure did love each other and I miss so many things about him. We had our issues and all but when it came to loving each other we sure did it well. I miss him too and Its tough but just keep a positive mind and we'll all be okay!
yulaw911 Posted June 23, 2011 Posted June 23, 2011 Hey man i know exactly how you feel...sometimes i hate her for putting me what she put me through and sometimes i just miss holding her hand and burying my face in her neck. Its the little things that kill you, just gotta take it day by day i guess
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