josyjosy Posted June 23, 2011 Posted June 23, 2011 (edited) I really like this guy and for a long time, ive had an idea that he's interested but i was never sure. I also never told him that i like him mainly coz i was scared of the rejection. I really didnt know how he felt about me. He wanted me to be his date for this gala thing that they were having for his company. He never personally asked me, but instead have a friend ask me. For about three months, he didnt really text me or call me. He texted me a couple times, one of them FINALLY confirming things for the gala and the other asking what im up to for the weekend because he's planning a visit. He lives about an hour and a half away from me and he doesn't have a car right now because it's back in his hometown (he's originally from out of state). He's still in the process of having the car brought here. I was told by his bestfriend he doesn't call, text, or respond to anybody, even to him and theyre bestfriends. Or if he does, it's rare. So i tried to understand it. His bestfriend also told me that it's very hard to get reception where hes staying and that he is pretty busy. I understand the circumstances and even though i do find it weird, i was very understanding about it. Also, i heard that him not having a car right now is an issue with him because he cant take me out. About 2 weeks ago, the guy and i finally saw each other again at the gala and everything was just perfect. We finally told each other that we really like each other and we finally kissed. He also told me that he's planning to go home soon to get his car. Anyway, i haven't heard from him since and i thought after what we talked about he'd finally make more effort. But he hasn't. I actually texted him today to see how he's doing and surprisingly he responded, very short though. I tried texting him a couple times before and some he responded to and some he doesnt. Sometimes he respond a day late, but better late than never. I find out that he is back in his hometown right now and im hoping he is out there to get his car. But i dunno. I just feel very defeated and discouraged right now. He says he really likes me but his actions don't show that. Do actions really speak louder than words? Is it possible for a guy to really like a girl but don't do anything about it? Edited June 23, 2011 by josyjosy
utterer of lies Posted June 23, 2011 Posted June 23, 2011 Do actions really speak louder than words? Yes. Is it possible for a guy to really like a girl but don't do anything about it? Very, very unlikely.
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