Cantcope Posted June 22, 2011 Posted June 22, 2011 Why can't we just be honest with each other? He says that he's miserable without me...but he was miserable with me. I'm trying to play this off as though I'm unaffected and fine with the decision (he ended things because we fight too much). Just venting because I don't have anyone who cares to hear about it anymore. Yes, I want him back. Badly. Google "How to get him back" and all you read about is "acting as though you've moved on"....blah, blah, blah. It just sucks that if you want someone back, you can't just tell them exactly how you feel and say "hey, maybe we had fights....didn't get along like a story book romance, but we love each other. Wouldn't you rather struggle a little bit with me than suffer without me"? I'm just rambling....long day. lol
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted June 22, 2011 Posted June 22, 2011 yeah I've googled "how to get her back" A LOT, I even bought a few of the "get your ex back" systems which all basically tell you the same thing. personally I don't feel it is right to promote such a product on LS so I will tell you what I liked about the best system I bought and what I didn't like. M3 System by: Michael Griswold (can look him up on youtube, he does a few free videos) Likes: 1.) he does video footage of just about every topic 2.) he does this off of his webcam which makes you feel like he is right there talking to you. 3.) I learned how to properly meditate to relieve any anxiety or problems I may be having. Dislikes: 1.) customer support kind of sucks (got a reply once, asked more questions and haven't gotten a reply) 2.) every once in a while I get an email titled "are you making your man run away". wtf I put on the site that I'm a male, and asked a question about my ex-GIRLFRIEND. 3.) it's $97 for the platinum membership (believe it's $49 for basic), no recurring fees but I find that rather expensive for little to no customer support. just remember that there are no guaranteed methods to get an ex back.
shortee143 Posted June 22, 2011 Posted June 22, 2011 I agree! So much of "wanting someone back" is playing a game. Pretend that you dont want them, then you'll get them back (or so it's said to help). There is def no fool proof method to get someone back. It is true- why cant we just be honest, why do we need to play the "i dont care, im over it" game. I didnt go that route- I'm 3 months post breakup, and in contact with the ex strictly bc we have TONS of mutual friends, and he finally manned up and had a serious talk with me, and I told him I loved him, and life is too short to not say how I feel etc. So did I get him back? No. I see him with other girls ew hah, BUT I was honest. He's been a jerk as of late- so now I'm feeling as tho I'm ok to push to move on, so at least I dont think I'll have to fake the "i'm moving on attitude". Then again, a lot of exes do come back around, and it is when YOU are happy and moved on. Who knows haha but I totally get you on the whole why not just be honest and why play games thing.
usabup Posted June 22, 2011 Posted June 22, 2011 The truth is, if two people really do love and respect each other, they will BOTH be willing to sit down and talk through problems. I always say, if you are at the point of begging and pleading or at the point of having to make a plan to get them back then just stop. Because they are desperation moves. It takes two people to maintain a healthy relationship and if they really cared, they wouldn't have left in the first place.
MandyC18 Posted June 22, 2011 Posted June 22, 2011 i am in the same situation you are! yeah act like you moved on? hahaha thats a joke right. Its so hard but im trying to make him come to me now and he did today via text because i guess i have to make him want me more. We both know i want him
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