Can't cope with the fact that he's moved on

[bsweet00]

I wish I didn't have to feel this pain anymore. Every day I miss him, and although it feels like I'm getting better sometimes, there's always something that I find out that breaks me down, and I feel like I'm back on square one.

 

He moved on so quickly. Not one week and he was already spending the night with this other new girl. He's only known her for three months, they met at a bar one night, and just today I found out through a mutual friend that on her wall on Facebook, it says she's in "a relationship". I know it seems stupid, but they say it's not official until it's FB official. His profile still says "single" but I feel it's only a matter of time before he changes it.

 

He always told me he saw us being together in the future, that he could see me having his kids, moving in together after college, getting married even. We broke up mutually, and although our relationship wasn't perfect, we thought if we actually gave each other time and space to ourselves, things could work out between us. He would still tell me he loved me, needed me etc. even after we broke up.

 

So how did he move on so quickly after years and years of memories and promises made?

 

I feel like I might be experiencing slight depression. I'm working full time, enrolled back in school, hang out with friends and family, I've been working out regularly. I just want to feel ok again...but I can't help but miss him.

 

Here's the more full version of my story.

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t283287/

[Karala]

Why the f*** is your ex still in your Facebook friendlist?

[bsweet00]

He's not. This is what I found out through the mutual friend. I deleted him off my facebook almost a month ago.

[Karala]

Oh ok, sorry I might have over-reacted

 

This sucks and it is the reason why I hate Facebook with a passion. What are we supposed to do if we don't want to know anything about what our ex is up to, cut ties completely with our whole social circle?

 

I had the same problem and ended up de-activating my account. In the end I'm happy I did because Facebook is stupid anyway and took up too much of my time.

[latexyankee]

Agreed I haven't been on a social network in years since maybe 04. i deleted that a few years later after arguing with people (girls) about who my #1 and #2 were...christ. It does suck because now I'm tempted to give it another chance and maybe meet people, but i know I'd stalk her there and continue to make myself feel full of ****.