sunrise28 Posted June 22, 2011 Posted June 22, 2011 How can I stop feeling jealous of my partners ex wife. We've been together in our lDR for 3 years and he lives with his ex wife ( both can't afford to sell house yet). I have two children form a previous too, so I tihnk my feelings are mulltiplied partly because of this. I know this feeling means I am an insecure person, I admit it. I can't seem to shake this feeling though, depsite trying to for such a long time.
aisle_seat Posted June 22, 2011 Posted June 22, 2011 Why are your feelings multiplied due to your children? This is a tough situation for sure. I think your only real answer lies in how you feel about your partner. Do you trust him? Is he completely open and honest with you about all things? Do you know exactly his living situation meaning where does he sleep in the house and where does his ex sleep? Do you know why he and his ex got divorced? Has he ever given you any reason to think he's not totally committed to you? How often do you get to see him? You can tell a lot more about a person once you've spent time with him. If he's not honest about the kind of person he is when you're talking long distance/emailing, etc, he won't be able to hide it long once you spend time together.
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