superchiefs Posted June 21, 2011 Posted June 21, 2011 Another question I have, I do not own any pictures of me and my ex. I dont have any pictures of us together stored on my computer. When she broke up with me, I deleted all of the pictures off of my facebook and I untagged myself in the ones she had up. However, she cried to me about it and I ended up allowing her to retag me in 5 pictures of us together. Now that it has been 2 months since our 5.5 year relationship ended and she has a new boyfriend, should I go ahead and untag myself in the pictures again? Or is this something I could regret?
PegNosePete Posted June 21, 2011 Posted June 21, 2011 You can do what you like dude. Why would you regret it? You're not trying to be "friends" are you? Untag, delete, block.
Art_Critic Posted June 21, 2011 Posted June 21, 2011 Why would you ever regret it ? Untag away... Sounds to me that she is trying to show the whoever public that she is still friends with you even though she has moved on...
geegirl Posted June 21, 2011 Posted June 21, 2011 Another question I have, I do not own any pictures of me and my ex. I dont have any pictures of us together stored on my computer. When she broke up with me, I deleted all of the pictures off of my facebook and I untagged myself in the ones she had up. However, she cried to me about it and I ended up allowing her to retag me in 5 pictures of us together. Now that it has been 2 months since our 5.5 year relationship ended and she has a new boyfriend, should I go ahead and untag myself in the pictures again? Or is this something I could regret? So, then she will cry again when she finds out you untagged. Then you will retag. You can't keep doing this Super. You implement NC. She calls. You pick up. She cries. She gets her fix. She goes back to boyfriend. Now you untag. She cries. You retag. You hurt. You NC. She calls. You pick up. She gets her fix. She goes back to boyfriend. You hurt. You NC. She calls. You ignore. She cries and is depressed. You contact. Lather. Rinse. Repeat. Don't untag because you want a reaction. Untag because you are ready to quit this mess. Just like crying wolf with your NC, don't you cry wolf with this FB tag/untag business. For once, do something and take yourself seriously.
Author superchiefs Posted June 21, 2011 Author Posted June 21, 2011 Ok, all facebook pictures have been untagged. Even if she cries about it, I wont be tagging again. I am done with her and I am taking this seriously.
jstobo Posted June 21, 2011 Posted June 21, 2011 Ok, all facebook pictures have been untagged. Even if she cries about it, I wont be tagging again. I am done with her and I am taking this seriously. That's good. You don't want a new relationship to have to see pictures of you and your ex either. I untagged all mine for that purpose.
Art_Critic Posted June 21, 2011 Posted June 21, 2011 Super... Now.........Block.............and Delete... Why would you want your ex to see what is going on in your life ?
Author superchiefs Posted June 21, 2011 Author Posted June 21, 2011 Super... Now.........Block.............and Delete... Why would you want your ex to see what is going on in your life ? She was already deleted from facebook when I initially deleted all of the pictures. However, she then cried about it, I didnt re-add her to facebook, but I told her she could retag me in a few pictures. So she hasnt been able to see what is going on in my life for quite some time, and I dont really think she cares. Every time I talk to her, she just talks about how depressed she is and how sorry she is that she did this to me.
geegirl Posted June 21, 2011 Posted June 21, 2011 She is so depressed that she went out and found another boyfriend! Oh, and she knows the crying tactic will make you cave. She seems to cry about everything.
Author superchiefs Posted June 21, 2011 Author Posted June 21, 2011 She is so depressed that she went out and found another boyfriend! Oh, and she knows the crying tactic will make you cave. She seems to cry about everything. Well, I wouldnt exactly say she went out and found another boyfriend. She works with this guy. Also, I think something was developing between her and him about a month before she broke things off with me. However, I think maybe he isnt quite committing to her like she would like. But oh well, not my problem. I just need to focus on the new relationships that I am currently working on developing.
Art_Critic Posted June 21, 2011 Posted June 21, 2011 She was already deleted from facebook when I initially deleted all of the pictures. However, she then cried about it, I didnt re-add her to facebook, but I told her she could retag me in a few pictures. So she hasnt been able to see what is going on in my life for quite some time, and I dont really think she cares. Every time I talk to her, she just talks about how depressed she is and how sorry she is that she did this to me. Ahh... great.. you are way ahead of the curve..
geegirl Posted June 21, 2011 Posted June 21, 2011 However, I think maybe he isnt quite committing to her like she would like. Interesting. Keeping you on the back burner it would seem.
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