kbme311 Posted June 21, 2011 Posted June 21, 2011 I was on a bus going to my guitar lesson when I saw my ex walking past. The bus had stopped at a traffic light and I watched him walk up the street. I'm still feeling shell shocked. I haven't seen him since we broke up four months ago. I broke no contact! I haven't initiated contact once since we broke up but I texted him when I got home and said that I'd seen him and apologised for having got the police involved. There is an unopened letter from the police. I don't want to open it and wish I hadn't contacted them. It was over the top. They said the best thing to do in the situation (as he kept phoning and texting) was to report him for harassment. He would then be warned and would be arrested next time he contacted me. So the letter must be from the police saying they have finally spoken to him. I feel bad for getting him in trouble with the police even though he treated me like crap. I was doing really well or so I thought but I'm still not over him. I'm considering calling him and arranging to meet...would this be a really bad idea?
usabup Posted June 21, 2011 Posted June 21, 2011 I was on a bus going to my guitar lesson when I saw my ex walking past. The bus had stopped at a traffic light and I watched him walk up the street. I'm still feeling shell shocked. I haven't seen him since we broke up four months ago. I broke no contact! I haven't initiated contact once since we broke up but I texted him when I got home and said that I'd seen him and apologised for having got the police involved. There is an unopened letter from the police. I don't want to open it and wish I hadn't contacted them. It was over the top. They said the best thing to do in the situation (as he kept phoning and texting) was to report him for harassment. He would then be warned and would be arrested next time he contacted me. So the letter must be from the police saying they have finally spoken to him. I feel bad for getting him in trouble with the police even though he treated me like crap. I was doing really well or so I thought but I'm still not over him. I'm considering calling him and arranging to meet...would this be a really bad idea? What were the reasons for the break up? Are you the dumper or dumpee?
Author kbme311 Posted June 21, 2011 Author Posted June 21, 2011 (edited) I dumped him in February this year. Reasons for the breakup: he was a nightmare to have a relationship with. He didn't cheat but never wanted to go out, spend money, commit to the relationship, he wanted to be single whilst still seeing me. I'd had enough of his crap so I dumped him. I'm wondering if, after four months he'd be willing to make the changes I asked him to make or if I'm just in denial that he is who he is and isn't going to change...I think I know the answer to my question and should stay no contact. I shouldn't have texted him. Luckily he doesn't have my contact details and I've blocked him online and via email so he cant' contact me. I texted him from a computer so he cant' reply and doesn't have my new cell number. I just said that I'd seen him, said sorry for the drama with the police and told him to take care. Edited June 21, 2011 by kbme311
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