Andrew80 Posted June 21, 2011 Posted June 21, 2011 My ex girlfriend and i just broke up about a week ago. We started dating the end of my senior year in high school and have dated for almost 3 years. After a relatively long fight spanning 1 month it finally came to an end. The worst part of the whole situation is the fighting was about how my mother and her had major differences, and i was the middle man. Well long story short I am on my first week of being single but i am just laying low and trying to hang out with my guy friends as much as possible to keep my mind off of things. Her on the other hand has been hanging out with another guy. This breaks my heart and i just dont know what to do. I still love her and i know she still loves me but i know she is not clear headed and im afraid she is going to either start dating this guy or he will take advantage of her. What are some tips for trying to get her back. I try not to be a stalker but i dont wanna look like i dont care. please help
wilsonx Posted June 21, 2011 Posted June 21, 2011 Right now, there's nothing you can do. You have to stop and realize that its over and try to move forward and heal. Dont text/call/email/facebook... give yourself some time and don't worry about what shes doing. Worry about what you are going to do now You also need to learn to set boundaries from your mom so she doesn't do that crap anymore
Author Andrew80 Posted June 21, 2011 Author Posted June 21, 2011 For me i dont feel like this is truly the end, and after a long talk we had it didnt seem like to her it was over. im trying to enjoy myself but i dont want to lose her. Is no contact the way to go? so i do not push her away farther?
Author Andrew80 Posted June 22, 2011 Author Posted June 22, 2011 Who broke it off with who? Dosent really matter in the end but....here it goes. We fought for about a month then we had nc for a week and decided to take a break. After a long crying convo we decided to just try being single for a little, and stay abstinent.
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted June 22, 2011 Posted June 22, 2011 After a long crying convo we decided to just try being single for a little, and stay abstinent. sounds like a break to me, or could be a way of keeping you from seeing other girls while she dates other guys during the break. Go NC, work on yourself, move on. <-- best chance at healing AND getting her back.
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