DeadOnArrival Posted June 21, 2011 Posted June 21, 2011 Hello everyone, this is my first post here . I met a girl on OKC this past weekend. We messaged on OKC, and at the end of that conversation i got her phone number. I waited a day and a half before texting her today. We talked for a good hour and a half. Towards the end of the conversation, I asked her what her plans were for tonight. She said nothing, and I told her that summer classes are taking up most of my nights. She replied saying that she thought I was going to ask her to hangout tonight. I replied saying that I thought it might have sounded like that, but that I would like to hang out. So I asked about next Tuesday, and she replied "we'll see ;)" I know the etiquette is that I'm suppose to wait until the day before or the day off the date to contact her again. My idea is to wait until Monday and call her, but should I send a few little texts in-between?
USMCHokie Posted June 21, 2011 Posted June 21, 2011 I have one question first: when you texted her for the first time, did you actually talk on the phone or did you exchange lame texts back and forth? Now here are a few points to take under consideration: (1) CALL her when you first get her phone number. DO NOT text!!! (2) Do not ask her what her plans are for tonight if you are busy tonight...seriously...? (3) When she responded with, "we'll see," I would have replied, "is there a better day for you?" As of right now, you don't have any date with her. Set concrete plans and insist upon her giving you a solid day and time to meet. None of this wishy washy bullsh*t. You should have scheduled the date during that phone conversation...not leave it hanging for a reattack like you did... (4) I don't believe in lame texts before the first date...but to each his own...
Author DeadOnArrival Posted June 21, 2011 Author Posted June 21, 2011 Yes we sent lame texts. Yea, I know. I've read that all over the place here. I decided to bite the bullet considering she is younger. I originally didn't want to talk about a date through text, I wanted to ask her if I could call her later...but the subject came up with my minor fo paux and I got anxious, and jumped on it .
D-Lish Posted June 21, 2011 Posted June 21, 2011 I'll offer a female perspetive. I hate talking in the phone, I don't want to talk on the phone before a date. We can talk on the phone after we establish we are dating. I don't want to talk to a random stranger on the phone.... Yes, continue to drum up interest through texting. You build something this way.
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