cjyoung1993 Posted June 20, 2011 Posted June 20, 2011 AHHHH I've been good NC for like 4 weeks and have been feeling much better until this morning...I woke up at 7 and couldnt fall back asleep because I am thinking about us, my mistakes when she came back to me, her HUGE mistakes but i want to talk to her, restore whatever relationship I can...wtf is wrong with me ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh It hurts so much because I think she left for another guy who is smart and pretty athletic and I almost feel inferior :S...3 years down the drain fkkk
jacksonBrown Posted June 20, 2011 Posted June 20, 2011 dont do it man your doing really well stick to it, i've also just lost 3 years down the drain with my ex and i learnt the hard way Stay NC.. it hurts like a SOB but it'l hurt worse if you break NC you'll have to start all over again hold in there bro
brokendreamz Posted June 20, 2011 Posted June 20, 2011 DON'T DO IT!! I could have written your post, but replace 3 years with 8 + a house. I know I can never see her/talk to her again... EVER. It hurts like hell and It's been like the death of a thousand cuts for me - the house should complete in 2 weeks, I'm 5 months out and LC. As soon as the house is gone and we've split the money NC NC NC NC NC NC NC NC. Stay strong dude - we can do this!!
Author cjyoung1993 Posted November 15, 2013 Author Posted November 15, 2013 thanks guys! I'm just looking back on my threads two years ago - still sucks but I think I'm getting better...it's kind of scary to start again after being hurt so badly though. Let me know!
Mario79 Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 I made the mistake of breaking it, but I was feeling so anxious and in despair, it was too much. I texted her, a very innocent text on an upcoming event in her life, congratulating her, which made her extremely upset, and before she had just unfriended me in FB, now I am blocked. My point is you never know what is going on at the other end, and when you break NC you must have some kind of expectation on what you hope the other person will do and unless its that thing in your mind, anything else will be a disappointment. Before you know it you are obsessing. You are doing the right thing by posting, keep posting, cause you will hear all the encouragement needed. You are recognizing your pain and taking steps to deal with it, that is enlightenment.
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