passions Posted June 20, 2011 Posted June 20, 2011 3 months ago, a guy I'd been seeing for two months told me he couldn't fall in love with me. Though his actions said something else (he treated me like a princess) and he always kept repeating to me how much he cared about me.. I had to take his words for it..but I was heartbroken, had grown attached to him - floating on pink clouds. I started to hate myself. But the time spent seeing him wasnt so easy, it was a rollercoaster ride.. I couldn't focus on anything.. nor could I focus on anything afterwards either. (we cut contact). Until I met someone else recently - basically a stranger - for a short while - in who's lap I could cry out about this guy. It was passionate and it was quite liberating. This other guy dumped me pretty quickly ..it didn't matter. But now I finally feel.. free. And cos I really admire this guy who told me he couldn't fall in love with me I contacted him the other day saying I wasn't mad at him anymore.. cos I'm not. I'm indifferent. And he's being really friendly and happy and he's curious about my life and he still tells me he cares about me. I just couldn't imagine how seeing another guy-- someone I saw for different reason.. could make me think so differently about the first.. someone I had really adored with every bone in my body. It's cool Maybe something will come out of our friendship.. maybe not.. the world wouldn't go under.. I'm just slightly scared that if I would see him again everything old would come back and ruin my life once again. But for now everything is friendly and happy. I just had to share this with ya
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