jazzbee Posted June 20, 2011 Posted June 20, 2011 Ok so i talk to this guy were friends he is younger than me. Not to long ago he deleted me from bbm because i put up a display picture of me and my boyfriend kissing and he messaged me saying "do you think i want to see that" like i purposely did it to piss him off but i didn't. I replied with " i didn't think you'd care" and he deleted me. Im like okay what the hell, first of all he is younger than me and he knows i have a boyfriend. Maybe i led him on without knowing i mean he flirted with me here and there but it was harmless and i just thought it was funny. I don't know why he is freaking out it's not like im the only girl or something the guy has tons of girls on facebook he is a huge flirt with everyone that's why i don't play into it. Now he won't talk to me and deleted me from everything. I don't get it this guy has some serious issues or something.
D-Lish Posted June 20, 2011 Posted June 20, 2011 Attention seeker, that's what I think is going on with you,....
Author jazzbee Posted June 20, 2011 Author Posted June 20, 2011 uhm okayy...im not an attention seeker... this guy was my friend
Rinas Posted June 20, 2011 Posted June 20, 2011 Making a thread claiming he has issues isn't the kindest thing you can do. Perhaps he had feelings for you. All you can do now is leave him be, and move on from that friendship.
Art_Critic Posted June 20, 2011 Posted June 20, 2011 It sounds like you are leading him on some.. he obviously has plenty more BF-GF feelings for you than you do for him. What you did by putting that picture up was hurt him.. He doesn't seem to have issues.. just that he likes you more than you like him. Maybe now that you know you hurt him.. you could apologize if you did it on purpose or not, just to make things right...
Author jazzbee Posted June 20, 2011 Author Posted June 20, 2011 well im not trying to be mean but he didn't tell me he had feelings for me and he constantly flirts with other girls im not the only one he does this to so why am i in the wrong here ?
Author jazzbee Posted June 20, 2011 Author Posted June 20, 2011 and its not like i wanted to lead him on when he would flirt i would just laugh at it and it always seemed like he was kidding around so.. it's not entirely me guys geez
Rinas Posted June 20, 2011 Posted June 20, 2011 As mentioned, you can apologize for any misunderstandings and make things right. Or if you're not up to it, just move on from the friendship.
Art_Critic Posted June 20, 2011 Posted June 20, 2011 it's not entirely me guys geez No it isn't.. normally with misunderstandings it's both parties.. but you did put the picture up causing the hurt..
bikinibeach Posted June 20, 2011 Posted June 20, 2011 he is a huge flirt with everyone ...why would you be friends with such a person if you have a boyfriend???? attention perhaps?
kourtney01 Posted June 20, 2011 Posted June 20, 2011 You have a boyfriend. This guy should not be your priority. Try not to lead any guys on in the future if that was the case this time around. When I was with someone, I never allowed any type of flirtatious behavior from other men. In fact, I would put them in their place AT ONCE so they knew not to do it again. Otherwise, you're allowing the behavior. (even if you just laugh it off)
Author jazzbee Posted June 26, 2011 Author Posted June 26, 2011 I recently talked to him he contacted me and said he was sorry for the way he acted and i made sure to tell him i was sorry if i was leading him on and everything is alright now he understands that i have no feelings for him like that. The only reason he thought i ever did was because (like some of you said) i never told him i didn't or tell him not to flirt i just laughed it off. He does understand now and we are back to being friends he also apologized to my boyfriend to avoid any confrontation in the future.
Emme Posted June 27, 2011 Posted June 27, 2011 Mmmm... I'm sitting here and I'm reading your post... And I'm trying to figure out why you even care... So what he deleted you. You have a man. He wants to be a a-hole that's on him. His loss. The only person you should be concerned with pleasing is your man. *Lifts right eyebrow* Be careful.
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