how does he usually wait before he calls after sex for the first time?

[Marie618]

we've been dating 3 months and finally had sex. he usually contacts me about every 3 days, but i'm not sure whether i should expect differently for contact after sex for the first time. is there a general rule that guys follow for after sex contact?

[surfrider4284]

No, there is no general rule.

[Marie618]

also, is there a cut-off point after which it just becomes disrespectful?

[surfrider4284]

what one person finds disrespectful, another might not. I don't think you can make broad generalizations like that when every scenario is different.

[Pasttense]

Why don't you contact him? Why should he take all the initiative?

[Feelsgoodman]

also, is there a cut-off point after which it just becomes disrespectful?

Yes, the cut off point is generally considered to be 38 hours (44 hours if the period falls on a weekend and/or statutory holiday).

[Eternal Sunshine]

we've been dating 3 months and finally had sex. he usually contacts me about every 3 days, but i'm not sure whether i should expect differently for contact after sex for the first time. is there a general rule that guys follow for after sex contact?

 

If he really cares about you (and he should after 3 months unless it's a FWB deal)- he should contact you the same day or the day after. Men do know that women are particularly vulnerable after first time sex.

[Marie618]

nvmd he called

[Eternal Sunshine]

we've been dating 3 months and finally had sex. he usually contacts me about every 3 days, but i'm not sure whether i should expect differently for contact after sex for the first time. is there a general rule that guys follow for after sex contact?

 

If he really cares about you (and he should after 3 months unless it's a FWB deal)- he should contact you the same day or the day after. Men do know that women are particularly vulnerable after first time sex.