gerib38 Posted June 20, 2011 Posted June 20, 2011 My ex broke it off with me abt 6 weeks ago, he has had no contact with me i have sent abt 3 msg throught the breakup last one being about 3 weeks ago, Sat night my phone rang at 2 am.. HE HAS NEVER CALLED me at this hr before , but i grabbed it before i realized who it was both my daughters were out so naturally i thought it was one of them ,,, He asked how i was .. i said .. im doing ok... he said: no your not.. i said well im trying to be, I said.. how are you.. he said .. terrible, i said whats wrong.. he said everything... i said well are you ok? he said NO!! I sai are you drunk .. he said no , but i should be he asked if he woke me i said .. well it is 2 am.. he said: what else would you be doing at 2 am huh?... the he apologized for calling 2or 3 times and hung up .. didnt say goodbye or anything... weird conversation....... i thought wtf.. was that about.. he made it clear he wanted it over , i thought maybe he wanted an invite over , which i did not do , but usually hes pretty forward .. if he wanted to come over i think he would have asked, Im not really asking anything, just venting, i wanted to contact him the nxt day to c if he was alright , but decided better of it, I loove him and would like to get back together, but it was his decision , not mine and i wont chase him , if i did then id feel like thats why he came back i want him to ask me if he can come back or to c me to talk etc... im scared and at the same time feel like it threw me back a few steps by answering the call , im not sure if i would have answered it or not if i had seen it was him before i hit the answer button , i hope i wouldnt have so last 2 days i have been really blue .. dont break NC until they are specific about whay they need to talk to you i guess is my point , even though he initiated the contact it still is confusing
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