Why did my narcissist ex-boyfriend dosen't come pick his stuff?

[billion]

He broke up with me because I wanted more commitment.

He wanted us to be friends and I refused.

Since then, I want him to pick up his shiz but even if we fix dates and time, he never shows up..

Why? What is this little game he's playing?

Edited June 19, 2011 by billion

[bikinibeach]

he knows once he takes it, the connection he has to you is gone. if you are indeed serious about this breakup, put his stuff out on the lawn and let him know.

[billion]

I'm tired of calling him on it.

I thought of putting it in a locker, pay a month and send him the key but that would just be to take again more of my time and energy (and money!) for this person who completely disrespect me.

 

I was wondering if I could just sell the stuff, there is some expensive stuff in there... but he doesn't seem to bother about it.

[stray]

That's not why he hasn't picked up his stuff. He hasn't picked up his stuff because he's lazy, and doesn't want to deal with it. Trust me, he's not concerned about the connection. He's just lazy all-round.

 

Mail his stuff to him; simple.

[coolheadal]

Packed it up and send it to him by mail the cheapest way. He'll never come and pick it up. Get a couple of plastic trash bags and dump all his stuff into it. Gets some girl friends to help you out. Drove to his place and dump it on his lawn. Call him up on the cell phone and say look outside and go pickup your stuff. Cya!