Not Posted June 19, 2011 Posted June 19, 2011 So this girl works with me, kinda like her but I don't know what to make of her. I get the feeling she's just f*cking around with me but I'd really really love to hear your opinions. I tend to be the first one to make contact via text or facebook and she pretty much never has texted me first etc. The thing is, she always talks to me in person and she come up to me abd start the conversation whenever I see her. The thing is, I think she does that with most guys though. I really don't know what to think, is she interested in me or nah? I don't think she is as I made the decision to somewhat ignore her and not make contact through text etc and she's hasn't initiated any conversation whatsoever. I really want to hear what everyone thinks so please reply. If have any questions about the situation or need more detail then please ask. Thank you.
Cee Posted June 19, 2011 Posted June 19, 2011 This question comes up a lot on this forum and IMO, there is one answer. Ask her on a date. That's the only way to advance anything. Even you were psychic, you'd still need to ask her out. It's scary, but its also part of the adventure. Edit: if she's a coworker, you might want to pass on asking her out. May cause problems at work.
thehead Posted June 19, 2011 Posted June 19, 2011 Pass. Not only does Cee make a good point about mucking up your workplace, what you've described doesn't sound like interest to me.
fashionista Posted June 20, 2011 Posted June 20, 2011 Texting is not the same as talking in person. It sounds as if she likes talking to you when you see her. Ask her out before she loses interest.
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