seekerwithaquestion Posted April 19, 2004 Posted April 19, 2004 If a man can't have an orgasm, does that mean he's unsatisfied with me or that he's getting it from another woman? Or could it be anti-depressants or just stress? What if it happens on more than one occasion?
MB Posted April 19, 2004 Posted April 19, 2004 Have him see a doctor. It's probably a medical problem, most likely related to anti-depressants.
wideawake Posted April 19, 2004 Posted April 19, 2004 Originally posted by seekerwithaquestion Or could it be anti-depressants or just stress? What if it happens on more than one occasion? It could be all of the above and about a million other things. But if he's on any kind of SSRI, than that would be a pretty good guess. Have him see a doc. And tell the doc everything that is going on....
Jeo123 Posted April 19, 2004 Posted April 19, 2004 possible he's just spending a little too much time by himself. Is he worried about this too, or is it just something you've noticed. Because talking to him might explain it if you haven't already done so.
Greta Posted April 19, 2004 Posted April 19, 2004 Originally posted by wideawake But if he's on any kind of SSRI, then that would be a pretty good guess. Have him see a doc. And tell the doc everything that is going on.... Definitely, many anti-depressants have sexual side effects.
tac719 Posted April 19, 2004 Posted April 19, 2004 Could be anything. Talk to him, that is the first step. I was on anti-depressants for a while and noticed zero sexual problems. Could be anything. Maybe he's thinking to hard about baseball.
faux Posted April 19, 2004 Posted April 19, 2004 Originally posted by seekerwithaquestion If a man can't have an orgasm, does that mean he's unsatisfied with me or that he's getting it from another woman? Or could it be anti-depressants or just stress? What if it happens on more than one occasion? If he is on medication that can be a cause. I was on Zoloft a few years ago and it was impossible for me to acheive orgasm while taking it.
reggio Posted April 19, 2004 Posted April 19, 2004 Don't jump to conclusions. Talk to him first, you should only suggest for him to see a doctor if he feels comfortable with it.
FolderWife Posted April 19, 2004 Posted April 19, 2004 Does he look at porn? My husand didn't get off when he looked at porn all the time.
supportseeker Posted April 19, 2004 Posted April 19, 2004 He doesn't look at porn but he looks at other women in real life. jerk! I did talk to him about it. He told me not to worry about it and it was just because there were too many people in the other room (he's got roommates). When we first met, it wouldn't take him any longer than ten minutes. Now it takes him forever and he be sweating and stuff. Could it be me? He just wants something new and fresh? He doesn't even look like he's enjoying it and he will not look at me while we're doing it!!! He turns away or closes his eyes.
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