Author Mark1 Posted August 16, 2011 Author Posted August 16, 2011 We're still talking, she texted me, "Yes!! Two weeks, see you then!!" So, hopefully she still has interest. Should I stick to her suggestion of dinner, or should I suggest something unique like mini golf or something?
Author Mark1 Posted August 22, 2011 Author Posted August 22, 2011 Gonna text her today to get dinner on Saturday!
Author Mark1 Posted August 22, 2011 Author Posted August 22, 2011 She usually responds within 5 minutes, I just texted her about a date/time/location and its been 45 mins. FML.
Author Mark1 Posted August 22, 2011 Author Posted August 22, 2011 I hate my life. Got a reply: "Is this a friendly gathering?"
Author Mark1 Posted August 22, 2011 Author Posted August 22, 2011 I'm such a phaggot, I texted back "haha yes, as friends" Ugh, I hate my life. But I hate her for being so foward. If she wanted to be friends she should have asked for lunch, not dinner.
Author Mark1 Posted August 23, 2011 Author Posted August 23, 2011 (edited) Any thoughts? I think Im just going to treat it like a date... Edited August 23, 2011 by Mark1
Art_Critic Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 Mark.. it seems she doesn't like you the way you like her.. you have been friendzoned my man.. To me the best thing you could do at this point is make a play for her laying your cards out on the table and you will know for sure where you stand.
Author Mark1 Posted August 23, 2011 Author Posted August 23, 2011 Mark.. it seems she doesn't like you the way you like her.. you have been friendzoned my man.. To me the best thing you could do at this point is make a play for her laying your cards out on the table and you will know for sure where you stand. I feel better knowing I was friendzoned, than me stupidly friendzoning myself, do you think that's what happened based on her reply?
Author Mark1 Posted August 23, 2011 Author Posted August 23, 2011 How do I lay my cards out w/o scaring her away?
somethingsimple Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 Nothing, disgusts me more than a guy who pretends to be a girl's friend, but in reality really likes her (unless she's taken of course). Don't be that guy. It really is lying and being a two face in my opinion. For all you know, maybe she wasn't sure if it was a date or not either. In which, she generally asked you the question, now she thinks she's been friend zoned. Personally, what I would do. Is go on your little friend date, flirt & flirt & flirt, see if she responds well enough. Then at the end, say something like. "Now, that I know we can hangout as friends, next time we're going on a date."
Author Mark1 Posted August 23, 2011 Author Posted August 23, 2011 (edited) Thanks, that helps a lot. I will go and treat it like a date. I just want a way to undo the "as friends" part I said like an idiot. Edited August 23, 2011 by Mark1
somethingsimple Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 Haha at this point never doubt yourself. Keep it positive. Besides everything can be spun work in your favor. Like I said earlier, she might be thinking why you only think of her as a friend, she might be grueling over this which is good for you essentially. Besides you can always switch it up mid stride. Just be playful and flirty. Say something like "I really don't remember you being this cute, can this be a real date?"
Author Mark1 Posted August 23, 2011 Author Posted August 23, 2011 Plan: CALL the night before. Ask her how she's doing/hows classes. Say something to the effect of, "I think I misunderstood you earlier, and I wanted to make myself clear, I'm asking you out to dinner, just us 2"
somethingsimple Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 Personally, I wouldn't contact her, I like to make them miss me a bit. I would just roll with it right now, you don't want to ruin things. Seriously, just take your time, patience is often rewarded. If she is indeed interested in you, she'll drop hints and clues. Keep some mystery.
Author Mark1 Posted August 23, 2011 Author Posted August 23, 2011 Well, I think its at least only fair she knows before hand its just us 2.
somethingsimple Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 If you told her that other people were going than you'd should tell her. If not, then who cares. Just feel the situation out when you hang out with her.
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