Hongo Posted June 18, 2011 Posted June 18, 2011 heres the scenario: I'm 20 years old. I have a minor injury from playing sports, nothing too serious. So per doctor's orders I scheduled some physical therapy sessions at a nearby place. The first session was about a week ago. I'm sitting on the table waiting for my therapist to come and up walks this beautiful woman who I had actually noticed while I was sitting in the waiting room. She introduced herself, her name is Kristy. Brunette, gorgeous face, soft brown doe eyes. Adorable little freckles on her nose, and the sweetest demeanor. She can't be more than 27 or 28, I haven't asked but if I had to guess I would say she's closer to 25. So that would put me at the least 5 years younger than her, which I think is just before the moral cut off point. (correct me if i'm wrong) So she's stretching me out, massaging my injured muscle and we have a pretty good dialogue going. I'm making her laugh, she seems really cool, not a ditz at all. The kind of girl you would love to date. Then she tells me she has a fiance. This complicates things immensely. Now, I know that while I'm her patient (client?) that I can't ask her out because of legal issues. And because she is engaged I don't want to impede on that- i do try and take things like that seriously. But for some reason I can't stop thinking about this girl. I'm in college now and the girls that I'm dating are fun but I feel like I'm a lot more mature than most of them. Kristy is the type of girl who I should be dating. I really like her and want to ask her out on a date at the end of our pt sessions, even if it doesn't end up going anywhere. How do I go about this? How can I flirt with her and send signals without crossing the boundary that is preceded by her engagement? And is there a way that I can ask her about her engagement situation without sounding like I'm trying to pry? Thanks in advance for all advice
Art_Critic Posted June 18, 2011 Posted June 18, 2011 Engaged = Off the market and undateable Move on.. don't even try.. you will just get shot down
Cee Posted June 18, 2011 Posted June 18, 2011 I suggest you think of this woman as a model of someone you'd like to date. As you said she's the "type of girl" you should be dating. And then get out there and meet women who aren't already engaged. It sounds like you'd like to date women who are older and in established jobs. Join some young professionals groups off campus and see what happens.
oaks Posted June 18, 2011 Posted June 18, 2011 heres the scenario: I'll summarise. You have the hots for someone but she's your therapist and she's engaged. You wonder how to get with her. You're kidding, right?
Shaun-Dro Posted June 18, 2011 Posted June 18, 2011 heres the scenario: I'm 20 years old. I have a minor injury from playing sports, nothing too serious. So per doctor's orders I scheduled some physical therapy sessions at a nearby place. The first session was about a week ago. I'm sitting on the table waiting for my therapist to come and up walks this beautiful woman who I had actually noticed while I was sitting in the waiting room. She introduced herself, her name is Kristy. Brunette, gorgeous face, soft brown doe eyes. Adorable little freckles on her nose, and the sweetest demeanor. She can't be more than 27 or 28, I haven't asked but if I had to guess I would say she's closer to 25. So that would put me at the least 5 years younger than her, which I think is just before the moral cut off point. (correct me if i'm wrong) So she's stretching me out, massaging my injured muscle and we have a pretty good dialogue going. I'm making her laugh, she seems really cool, not a ditz at all. The kind of girl you would love to date. Then she tells me she has a fiance. This complicates things immensely. Now, I know that while I'm her patient (client?) that I can't ask her out because of legal issues. And because she is engaged I don't want to impede on that- i do try and take things like that seriously. But for some reason I can't stop thinking about this girl. I'm in college now and the girls that I'm dating are fun but I feel like I'm a lot more mature than most of them. Kristy is the type of girl who I should be dating. I really like her and want to ask her out on a date at the end of our pt sessions, even if it doesn't end up going anywhere. How do I go about this? How can I flirt with her and send signals without crossing the boundary that is preceded by her engagement? And is there a way that I can ask her about her engagement situation without sounding like I'm trying to pry? Thanks in advance for all advice You're just another example of someone wanting something they cannot have. Get over her already. Tons of attractive, available women and you said you're dating college girls that are fun. Hey, I got my sights set on a cute college girl right now and we're getting to know each other. Believe it or not, but the younger girls are more fun, because of much less emotional baggage and they're normally more free-spirited. Not to mention if they're fit, they look much better too. Take advantage of that because when you hit your 30s (like me) they'll be harder to come by and the older ones like your therapist won't be so hot anymore.
Knittress Posted June 18, 2011 Posted June 18, 2011 How many goals do you have? HAHA... Nooooooooooooo!
OldOnTheInside Posted June 19, 2011 Posted June 19, 2011 Can't tell if you're serious or not... Feel free to casually ask her out to lunch. Don't expect anything serious to come out of it though. Act friendly but not overbearing. Wait until the relationship with her fiance hits a rough patch and then take advantage of her. Never tell her what your true intentions are, you evil little man you. ^ Can you tell if I was being serious or not?
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