Veng Posted June 18, 2011 Posted June 18, 2011 We were together for 3 years. Great relationship, really fitting to each other and loving. But after this things got colder, he wasn't happy with his job, his looks and life in whole, then his friends didn't like me that much. After a month of this he left me. We were apart for half a year. A bit contact, sweet but nothing more. After half a year he wrote me a long mail: he could't really speak out all his feelings, but he just wanted me to be with him, so that i could be a part of his life. We started talking again. Everything is good, except ... feelings. I still love him very much, but he "wants me too much to leave me in peace but it seems to less to say he loves me". And we are living like this for 1,5 months already. First i tried to act reserved so as not to give more than i receive, but then i thought that maybe expressing my feelings openly would rouse his feelings too? He knowes what i feel to him but anyway. Maybe with love its like this: if you give love - you receive love in return? What do you think about it? Or do I miss something in this story?
wilsonx Posted June 19, 2011 Posted June 19, 2011 you cant make someone love you. its impossible. i had a cheating ex who dumped me because i caught her cheating again. i actually had been checked out of the relationship for 8 months only to use her as a companion to sleep next to and sleep with at my convenience so i wasn't lonely. the more you try, the more it pushes them away. its push pull. try pulling away a lot, he may come around but do not force the issue, give it time
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