WiselyNaive Posted June 18, 2011 Posted June 18, 2011 & it went suspiciously well....this breakup took a really big toll on me but yesterday with some eggin on from some friends and a day in the dumps i spur of the moment texted my ex....he didnt seem to know who is was...it had me wondering how many people he was estranged from to have no clue who said "were gonna have to talk about this some day you know"...after asking me who i was like 3 times i eventually told him and he responded "yea we do need to talk"....i told him i didnt want to talk through text but rather in person and if he was busy , about an hour later i was by his house and we had a conversation...it had been the first time i have seen him properly in 3 months other than glancing him a week before... my ex was so happy....so happy it scared me....it was if he was the one who called me...we had a deep conversation i expressed alot of how i felt...we both cried...he cried at like 3 different points..but i cried first...he started begging me back saying how hard it was for him not to say anything but that he knew i wouldnt respond to him...i explained that when you love some1 u put ur heart and pride on the line....i can honestly say i felt myself falling for it until i started asking about what hes been doing since we broke up...he told me about 2 girls he was involved with...1 of them stung me to the core not only was she young but i knew something was going on before....they had pictures together and he told me he had feelings for her but he was inlove with me and that he even told her that...idk if i should believe that...but what i do know is i will never be able to look at him and not see what they've done together....he ruined everything....things will never be the same no matter how hard we try... as much as i love him i know that id be damaging myself to re-enter i relationship with him and i know that this convo was just supposed to be closure for me...not a reconciliation...he said they started a relationship on thursday....and that after i left his house yesterday he broke up with her... idk this is like twilight zone for me...any thoughts?
jacksonBrown Posted June 19, 2011 Posted June 19, 2011 sounds like he really wants you back.. thats a tuff one if you think you guys could be good again have a new realationship and work on your issues together i'd say go for it, but if you think that it'll probably just end up the same old realationship and again you guys will eventually break up i would leave it and move on atleast you've got your dignitiy intact and he has come begging back let me know how it goes
Reoreyh Posted June 19, 2011 Posted June 19, 2011 I think you're crazy for having a problem with him seeing another woman after the break up. If that's keeping you from giving it another shot, well, you're just a very selfish person. You seem annoyed at his happiness. Really? Do you love this guy? Ask yourself that a thousand times before you jerk this guy around.
D-Lish Posted June 19, 2011 Posted June 19, 2011 i spur of the moment texted my ex....he didnt seem to know who is was after asking me who i was like 3 times i eventually told him and he responded "yea we do need to talk".... How does that sit well with you??? Do you forget the number of someone you are in love with in a matter of three months? Seriously, I still love my ex, and I'd know his number if I got a text. ...he told me about 2 girls he was involved with...1 of them stung me to the core not only was she young but i knew something was going on before....they had pictures together and he told me he had feelings for her but he was inlove with me and that he even told her that...idk if i should believe that...but what i do know is i will never be able to look at him and not see what they've done together....he ruined everything....things will never be the same no matter how hard we try... All these red flags in front of you. He's got 2 girls on the go, and you want to step back into that situation? as much as i love him i know that id be damaging myself to re-enter i relationship with him and i know that this convo was just supposed to be closure for me...not a reconciliation...he said they started a relationship on thursday....and that after i left his house yesterday he broke up with her... Read what I bolded- you know you'd do damage to yourself by re-entering the relationship... Yet- you are entertaining it regardless. WHY?
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