joejoe Posted June 18, 2011 Posted June 18, 2011 Hey everyone just quick one here. My ex broke up with after 4 years about 6 weeks ago for reasons I still dont fully understand. Possibly GIGS. We have spoken once or twice over that period and see eachother once and to be honest we have gotten on fairly well but friendly and nothing else. Im still pretty messed up over the whole break-up but have being doing my best to improve myself. anyway recently I have been offered a big job but it will envolve me emigrating. I was just wondering what people thought I should do. I'm thinking I have to tell her face to face as this is a huge deal but at the same time shes the one who ended things so would she even care. Any thoughts and advice would be great
Kilty Posted June 18, 2011 Posted June 18, 2011 Yep - she ended it and walked away. Any contact has to be from her. When she finds out from someone else you have emigrated there is a good chance she will be gutted. Plus if you contact her and she isnt interested then its just more heartbreak for you. At this point your mind is living off your emotions and it will try and justify any reason for contacting her - dont listen to it
Fufu Posted June 18, 2011 Posted June 18, 2011 When she chose to go, she's gone. Therefore, you don't have to tell her you are emigrating. In fact, take this great opportunity to go to a new country and perhaps you never know, you will fall in love with a new lady
oldguy Posted June 18, 2011 Posted June 18, 2011 DUDE!!! wake up! your not a couple! You don't owe her a damn thing, let it go, move on. I know, easier said than done but you've got to develop a mantra similar to the fist line here.
oldguy Posted June 18, 2011 Posted June 18, 2011 by the way; congratulations on the new job, new life, new area.
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