No_hope Posted June 18, 2011 Posted June 18, 2011 I came here a few months ago because my fiance broke up with me 6 weeks before our wedding, he told me he didn't love me, cheated on me, and left me for the other girl. He ignored my phone calls and acted like he hated me. It didn't make sense to me at all because we never would fight, we had a loving relationship, and *I* though we were happy. anyways 4 months later he came begging me to take him back and that he was so sorry, he said he was scared of getting married, and that he loves me and wants to be with me for the rest of his life. so I said no, then he kept begging me to take him back and said he would make it up to me for the rest of his life. anyways I gave him another chance BUT I did not take him back, I said "we can hang out, but no promises" so we hung out and then I did take him back but I made him work for it. it's been well over a month and we are actually happy. The first month was really hard because I would start crying and asking him why he left me for the other girl etc etc, and he says he honestly doesn't know what he was thinking and that it was a huge mistake. we have been together for 2 1/2 years, but the thing is defiantly go "NO CONTACT" even though he did love me. Me bugging him just made him mad. After I did stop talking to him he said that he did miss me, and he said he did think of me every day but when I stopped talking to him he really started missing me, and was really depressed and was thinking for about a month on how to get back together with me and one day he just did it. just letting you guys know there is hope, and we are actually really happy. And I am hoping this last forever, we are NOT getting married, he asked me to marry him and I told him no, but then he switched it around and said if we do get married it wont be for another 5-10 years, but I still said no. HA! But who knows what might happen. if we do break up (kinda doubting it will happen now...) I will report back here. also we have 2 children and expecting our 3rd now.
Exit Posted June 18, 2011 Posted June 18, 2011 Congrats that is a nice story to hear. I sincerely hope that both of you will do what it takes to keep it on the right track this time.
0hpenelope Posted June 18, 2011 Posted June 18, 2011 What? You mean... exes can come back? I'm kidding! Congratulations, OP! I think you're in a better position anyhow, with or without your ex. The best outcome of any break up I experienced is the strengthening of my coping mechanisms. Positive thoughts to your little family and good health to you and your third baby!
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