blackmagik Posted June 18, 2011 Posted June 18, 2011 So everyone, saying I love you can be a huge step for many relationships. For those of you who have said it in your current or past relationships, how long into the relationship did you do it? How was it done? Would you have it any other way? I have in the past but I am just curious how others have done it and how long they have waited. There is a couple schools of thought in this topic so everyone share!
youngskywalker Posted June 18, 2011 Posted June 18, 2011 I just held off and let my g/f say it for the first time. It was during sex.
youngskywalker Posted June 18, 2011 Posted June 18, 2011 I was so happy. It took everything I had not to run downstairs and tell my son right away. I woke my son up bright and early the next morning, bouncing all over the bed and saying "he loves me! he loves me!". My son cracked an eye open and said "I'm thrilled - now go away". Stories like that remind me what life if all about.
USMCHokie Posted June 18, 2011 Posted June 18, 2011 The first and only time I've said it was with my ex from 2 years ago...apparently I said it in my sleep about a month and a half into the relationship...
Author blackmagik Posted June 18, 2011 Author Posted June 18, 2011 In my current relationship, it was 5 1/2 months. I'm in an LDR so we don't see each other as often as most. We were curled up in bed getting ready to go to sleep. It was at a family function so the house was full and we weren't comfortable having sex. Anyway, he wrapped himself around me and said "honey?" and I said "yes?" And he said "I love you." I immediately said it back to him. I was so happy. It took everything I had not to run downstairs and tell my son right away. I woke my son up bright and early the next morning, bouncing all over the bed and saying "he loves me! he loves me!". My son cracked an eye open and said "I'm thrilled - now go away". Haha! I love it! That is very exciting. I have said it in two different relationships. The first relationship was definitely the way I felt but the second one I think was more of an infatuation more than an actual love. So ladies is it more important for the guy to say it or for the girl to say, or does it not even matter at all. For my current relationship I am for some reason scared to death to say it, mostly because all the girls I have said it to ended up hurting me. So it is definitely all me, but I am getting tired of the "I really like you a lot", "I really really like you", "I care for you a lot" that we both give each other. Continue with the stories though! They are always great moments in relationships.
Author blackmagik Posted June 18, 2011 Author Posted June 18, 2011 Yeah I have read a lot about the girl needs to say it first in the relationship. I was curious after I had been the one to say it every relationship that the word had been thrown around. We are at our 5 month point and I was planning on bringing it up fairly soon too.
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