surfrider4284 Posted June 17, 2011 Posted June 17, 2011 So I went out with a girl for the first time a couple days ago. Things went really well, no awkward moments..good convo. She texted me later that night after the date. We've exchanged a couple texts since. I don't want to come across as clingy, which I'm not, but I would like to see her again. She seems interested, but perhaps feels similar to me (doesnt want to come across as clingy). Should I propose meeting up again or wait a bit?
germain Posted June 17, 2011 Posted June 17, 2011 I think most of the time the guy will initiate the dates in the beginning. It's probably a good idea to give it time between your meetings - without making her think you're not interested of course.
Author surfrider4284 Posted June 17, 2011 Author Posted June 17, 2011 I think most of the time the guy will initiate the dates in the beginning. It's probably a good idea to give it time between your meetings - without making her think you're not interested of course. I know...it seems like a bit of an art form. How to let her know I like her and want to see her again without seeming needy...
kooki Posted June 17, 2011 Posted June 17, 2011 Ask her out again! Im a woman and I would agree with posters. You wait a couple of days or so ( you don't want to appear needy, yes). And you ask! She is probably expecting your call and would likely not ask you out herself, afraid to break dating rules which state that guys need to do the chasing. Do what feels right though. Ask away!
EasyHeart Posted June 17, 2011 Posted June 17, 2011 Good lord, ask her out!! NOW!! Asking a woman out is not being needy, it's being a man. She sure as hell isn't going to ask you. If I like a woman, I usually ask her at the end of the first date. That doesn't make me needy or desperate, it makes me interested.
snug.bunny Posted June 17, 2011 Posted June 17, 2011 "Should" you? No. "Would" you? Yes, only if you're interested in doing so... By the way.... Since when does asking someone on a date = needy/clingy Since when does liking someone = needy/clingy You're not impoverished, are you?
EasyHeart Posted June 17, 2011 Posted June 17, 2011 That's a pretty weird thing to do. Typically, when I ask out a woman I call her and say, "Hi, it's EasyHeart. Would you like to go out on Saturday?" It works pretty well.
grkBoy Posted June 17, 2011 Posted June 17, 2011 So I went out with a girl for the first time a couple days ago. Things went really well, no awkward moments..good convo. She texted me later that night after the date. We've exchanged a couple texts since. I don't want to come across as clingy, which I'm not, but I would like to see her again. She seems interested, but perhaps feels similar to me (doesnt want to come across as clingy). Should I propose meeting up again or wait a bit? Just ask her out. She's waiting for you to. Right now she's wondering if you're still into her or not.
Author surfrider4284 Posted June 18, 2011 Author Posted June 18, 2011 nah you guys are right.. we were texting a bit earlier and I just figured screw it. Told her we should do something this weekend and she said shes totally down. good call
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