cracker2011 Posted June 17, 2011 Posted June 17, 2011 Im not sure if this is the right forum for this question but how do couples in LDR maintain/mix up the s*x life. at the moment we skype and talk naughty to each other creating a visual image of what we where where we are and what we are doing to each other etc etc I feel like its the same all the time..is there anything we/I can do to spice it up a little? We are only in LDR since about 6/7 months..we were not dating before that. Thanks in advance
creighton0123 Posted June 17, 2011 Posted June 17, 2011 Plenty of things if you both have imagination. Masturbation at the same time to climax. Masturbation by one partner while the other assumes various positions. Incorporation of sex toys - vibrator, dildo, cock ring, *butt plug?*, masturbation sleeve for the guy. You can try the remote control vibrator egg so that he can tell you to push the button when he wants. There's also a bunch of different male masturbation techniques that he can try. One includes a bowl of ice water to cool his testicles while he masturbates. It produces a very different type of orgasm. You say you use Skype to talk... why not video chat? Tossing it up when it comes to time of day. Sometimes in the morning, sometimes at night. If you have wireless internet and a shelf of some form in your bathroom (and a laptop), you can take a luke-warm shower with the curtain open with the laptop/webcam on the otherside of the bathroom (so as to not get wet and not get clouded by steam). With a webcam, you can still do a little bit of exploration - different camera angles and positions so you're not just sitting in a computer chair or on your bed. For the guy, use of different lubricants for masturbation. My final suggestion: Don't be quite so embarrassed when it comes to talking about sex. It doesn't need to be called "naughty time". :-)
Author cracker2011 Posted June 17, 2011 Author Posted June 17, 2011 Thanks we do use webcam and both masturbate.i was just curious as to what other things we could try..just to keep it alie and spicy
Sivok Posted June 17, 2011 Posted June 17, 2011 I've been in an LDR and learning to Roleplay made the phone sex/etc so much better. It's not preferred, but in general, becoming really good at phone sex makes you so much better in bed - you'll know exactly what to say and how to say it haha. Voice does wonders in the actual bedroom
creighton0123 Posted June 17, 2011 Posted June 17, 2011 Thanks we do use webcam and both masturbate.i was just curious as to what other things we could try..just to keep it alie and spicy Requires patience is all. Just like in person, there are going to be some times when one of you isn't feeling as sexual as the other. The benefit here is that if you want to pleasure your partner, you can accomplish that simply be taking your clothes off and assuming various positions while the other one delights him or herself to you ;-)
TokyoG33kyGal Posted June 18, 2011 Posted June 18, 2011 i forgot the name of the vibrator that you can control over the chat XD. it is expensive though.
creighton0123 Posted June 20, 2011 Posted June 20, 2011 i forgot the name of the vibrator that you can control over the chat XD. it is expensive though. Worth every penny.... from what I hear :-P
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