jazzbee Posted June 17, 2011 Posted June 17, 2011 I feel like im ruining my own relationship and i know im doing it i just can't stop myself. I know it seems stupid i just do little things that are slowly ruining my relationship and i don't even think about it when im doing them. Like for example my bf tells me to stop talking to someone he doesn't like but i continuously do it, sometimes i don't even want to. Other times it's only when he is being a jerk to me and then i act out against him, even when i suspect he is doing something behind my back i constantly accuse and assume. I know im doing this i just can't stop even when we settle the argument and then it could be good for a few days but i some how slip up. In the beginning it was switched i use to want him to love me so much and show me that he loves me and he use to be very distant about it i feel like i am the same way as he was. I'm confused this is my first serious relationship in 3 yrs and i don't want to ruin it. Maybe i'm scared of the commitment ? idk any advice for this ridiculous problem is this normal ?
TooAccepting32 Posted June 17, 2011 Posted June 17, 2011 why is he telling you not to talk to people? why do you think he's doing things behind your back? Do you think there might be a reason for this suspicion?
Author jazzbee Posted June 18, 2011 Author Posted June 18, 2011 well because the guy i talked to was i guy i had a thing for nothing ever happened between like we almost dated but nothing terrible and i get suspicious because his ex has been messaging him on facebook he says he never replied but i can't be sure and her messages were suspicious too but he says he has her on text block and blocked her on facebook... He somehow always makes it seem like its me but i feel like he triggers it
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