Lilmisus Posted June 17, 2011 Posted June 17, 2011 So today, I went to the beach and swimming with a good friend of mine who I met at my old job. Our topics stayed clean of my ex and his new girlfriend, and we talked about everyone and everything else for a while, until I asked how they were doing. Apparently they seem pretty happy, but she said she knows that people can put on a show, and they could easily be doing that. She also told me that she learned a week or so ago (from his new girlfriend) that they were living together now, and probably started maybe a month or more ago. I don't know why, but I kind of figured they were living together now. She was living with her cousin (who not only hooked him and I up last year, but hooked them up..this year) for a while there, and I know that neither of them have even been around a computer recently (and he doesn't have internet access at his place). She just moved in to live with him, and I guess his sister, her boyfriend, and his niece..I dunno though. It didn't really emotionally impact me though, which is a great thing. It did sting a little though, especially knowing that my friend thinks that they waited till I left my job to move in together..since it seems that way..but who knows? I told her that if he's happy, than I'm happy for him..but I doubt it will last now that they're living together after only knowing one another (let alone dating) for a few months..plus, they work together. Come the summertime, they will most likely be sick and tired of one another, if this summer is anything like last. It was hard not to wonder as well though as to how serious he is about her if he's moving their relationship this far along in such short time (I was hardly "allowed" into his place because it was "too dangerous"). But..I think the reason I'm so nonchalant about it right now, is that I met a cute, nice, guy an hour and a half after finding it out (post is in the dating section..need feedback on that story )..plus the fact that I've been working on just not giving a sh*t about them anymore. I honestly wish them well and don't really care..which I guess is a good sign?
TearyEyedPride Posted June 17, 2011 Posted June 17, 2011 Great sign!! I'm waiting to get to that stage. Right now I'm stuck being pissed at him. Slow process, but I'm making progress. Congrats on your find though! Hope it rocks!
california15 Posted June 19, 2011 Posted June 19, 2011 hey thats great! I'm happy for you. I'm not there yet, but you're right. Just try and not give 2 s**ts about them. I'll have to go read your dating thread now
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