iceman63 Posted June 17, 2011 Posted June 17, 2011 I heard something on the radio this morning, that really ticked me off, but I really want to get some other opinions about this matter. Apparently ladies who are with some one that tend to be less attractive than them, tend to be happier. They say this because the guy actually respects them, and calls them back, rather than a guy who's great looking and is obsessed over himself and doesn't give her any attention and doesnt return her calls. I would really hope to find that this is not true. Guys feel free to share your thoughts too
KR10N Posted June 17, 2011 Posted June 17, 2011 ERROR. DOES NOT COMPUTE If I were really into someone it would be because I like their personality, not because I think I'm more attractive then they are. I've met plenty of ugos w/ an equally ugly personality. I've met plenty of attractive guys w/ an equally attractive personality.
jandm05 Posted June 19, 2011 Posted June 19, 2011 its true. I have noticed that men who are very attractive seem to be very rude and blow women off unless they think they will get sex out of it.. Or if the girl seems smart they will blow them off. Less attractive men seem so sweet. They seem to have a better understanding with personality and are looking for more than just sex.
iris219 Posted June 20, 2011 Posted June 20, 2011 I heard something on the radio this morning, that really ticked me off, but I really want to get some other opinions about this matter. Apparently ladies who are with some one that tend to be less attractive than them, tend to be happier. They say this because the guy actually respects them, and calls them back, rather than a guy who's great looking and is obsessed over himself and doesn't give her any attention and doesnt return her calls. I would really hope to find that this is not true. Guys feel free to share your thoughts too Why are you hoping to find this to be untrue? Unless you’re outrageously hot, it will work in your favor (I'm assuming you're a guy). I’d say it’s true, generally, though there are always exceptions. It’s like how some men don’t want to date a woman who makes more money. Some women don’t want to date a man who’s hotter. And I personally think most men want a woman better looking than themselves. I rarely see average or below average women with hot dudes, but I see the reverse all the time, but that's just my observation. Men care more about looks than women (my personal opinion, but I genuinely believe this). I have to admit that I don’t want a guy substantially hotter than me. I’d feel like I always had to look my best, even first thing in the morning, and that sound stressful. I want someone equal looks wise (or a bit below).
Woggle Posted June 20, 2011 Posted June 20, 2011 This might be somewhat true but if a woman is with a guy less good looking than her she will lose attraction. In order for a woman to stay hot over a guy she needs a guy she sees as above her.
iris219 Posted June 20, 2011 Posted June 20, 2011 This might be somewhat true but if a woman is with a guy less good looking than her she will lose attraction. In order for a woman to stay hot over a guy she needs a guy she sees as above her. A woman often views a guy as "above" her physically if she's attracted to him, while knowing objectively he isn't. I thought my ex was the most beautiful man I'd ever seen. I see now that he clearly isn't. He's cute, but I'm cuter
Woggle Posted June 20, 2011 Posted June 20, 2011 A woman often views a guy as "above" her physically if she's attracted to him, while knowing objectively he isn't. I thought my ex was the most beautiful man I'd ever seen. I see now that he clearly isn't. He's cute, but I'm cuter Yes but that doesn't mean she isn't attracted to him.
4you Posted June 20, 2011 Posted June 20, 2011 always thought that unless both sides are pretty similar in their attractiveness, it's gonna cause problems regardless of who's better looking.
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