Citizen-d Posted June 16, 2011 Posted June 16, 2011 Hi I'm going through a divorce and it's been really rough my wife left me in feb with the kids and started divorce proceedings against me! She told me last august that she didn't love me but would try and well to cut a long story short she didn't! In march I found out she was having an affair but I think that's stopped now and I'm finding it hard to move on! I saw her today and as she has not shown any remorse for her actions I told her I was in a relastionship so she knew I was over her. She said we couldn't be friends as I had slagged her off telling people she had an affair and was a compulsive lier to which I replied I was only telling the truth!!! She said we can be civil but that's it. The problem is even though she has done awful things to me I still love her and I'm not in a new relationship I just wanted a reaction! I know I need to move on but she will not explain anything and is in denial about the affair! I don't know my questions but any thought would be great, thanks
robf1971 Posted June 17, 2011 Posted June 17, 2011 I told her I was in a relastionship Bad idea,she could probably tell you were lying. One day you will get into a relationship, you will not tell her, she will find out and trust me, then she will not be happy.
robf1971 Posted June 17, 2011 Posted June 17, 2011 Hi I'm going through a divorce and it's been really rough my wife left me in feb with the kids Do you have a custody agreement for the kids?
Author Citizen-d Posted June 17, 2011 Author Posted June 17, 2011 I'm seeing the kids two to three nights a week so that's great and we both adore the kids! I think the problem is i am seeing my wife two to three times a week and every time I see her I want to hold her and shake her and get her to come to her senses! How do you get over the history? We met at college and I have known her half my life and loved her all that time too!
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