tmn88 Posted June 16, 2011 Posted June 16, 2011 Anyone I was in a relationship with a guy for almost a year. 2 months ago he started ignoring me a bit but then he started talking to me again. Last month he told me that he would be happy if I died and I got really upset and yelled at him. He told me it was a joke and he did not mean it but I could not get over the fact he said it joke or not. So he said that he was leaving. So he just left and tried to avoid any contact. He talks to me friends though and tells them things about me. I have been really upset to the point of feeling sick at times I and don't know what to do to get over this.
Author tmn88 Posted June 16, 2011 Author Posted June 16, 2011 Before he said he would be happy if I died, he took out these knives putting them to his throat and he would also spin them around in his hand. He asked me if I was scared now. He also put his hand around his neck in a choking position and this upset me and it brought back memories of when someone tried to choke me. I got really upset and said something I wish i have not said. I said I wish I was dead and that is when he responded that he would be happy if I died.
TaraMaiden Posted June 16, 2011 Posted June 16, 2011 Sounds like the perfect relationship. He's an insensitive manipulative jerk. And if your friends start with "Insensitive Manipulative Jerk says".... Tell them: "Please don't tell me anything about IMJ or what he says: I am not interested, don't want to know, and think he's a spineless coward for using you to talk to me. if he really wants to tell me something tell him to be a man and do it himself, or tell him to shut-the-phukk-up." And ignore him, and go NC. Best thing you could do, ever.
EgoJoe Posted June 16, 2011 Posted June 16, 2011 Heh, some of the women on here definately make me feel good about myself. I was depressed and pushed my ex away at times but there were some serious circumstances plus I had a lesson to learn about putting space between the catalyst and my response Guys like this have zero respect for you or anyone else. Guys like this snitch and get butt pounded in the joint. Guys like this will crack someday and either attempt to be better or live inside a bottle. I am so glad I am not in any way shape or form like IMJ. NC 4eva.
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