hbchick Posted April 18, 2004 Share Posted April 18, 2004 anyone have any tips on how to get your ex back?? my boyfriend of 2 years and i recently broke up and now that i want to get back together, he wants to go have fun with his guy friends. i miss him so much and just want to be back with him, we had so much and it cant just be over. im afraid if i keep calling him it will just annoy him but then im afraid if i dont then he will just forget about me. please help! Link to post Share on other sites
gaia Posted April 18, 2004 Share Posted April 18, 2004 If you've been calling him a lot, I'm sure he's got the message now. Leave him alone for a bit and let him have some fun with his mates. If you're really important to him, he's not likely to forget you is he? You don't say who initiated the break-up. If it was him, it seems likely he really did want out. If it was you, he may just be p***ed off with you for messing him around, in which case you need to give it time. Link to post Share on other sites
Author hbchick Posted April 18, 2004 Author Share Posted April 18, 2004 we have never been the couple thats on and off we usually are good about talking about our problems. and well initially i broke up with him because he lied to me(which we have a big issue about not lieing) and for some reason it really pissed me off and i didnt want to just talk about it and i was thinking since we're only 17 we probabaly wont be together forever like we always said we would but then when i had time to think about it i realized i didn't want to be with anyone but him. we have way to much and have grown so much together in the last 2 years and so i came back to him having an idea about starting new and so on but he didn't want to, he just wants to go have fun with his friends. its been a week since we've broken up and not much contact at all! i dont know what to do now, since the break up is recent i need help about what to do NOW before it gets worse and we get further apart. im afraid if i give him his space he will realize he'd rather be with his friends then tied down to a relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
YssaBoo Posted April 19, 2004 Share Posted April 19, 2004 I feel for you,same situation when we broke up!! One of the things he told me when we broke up is that I called too much,emailed too much andwhen I called him I was supposed to have a purpose.This all came down to I have other friends besides YOU!! It really hurt,except his sis told me he didn't have hardly any friends and he was always home.He does have some new friends now and goes out more.But a few weeks ago,he told me he was sad and only a few things made him happy anymore,even after he had been with his friends. He emails me before school in the morning and late at night when he gets home.I guess he is finally realizing that he does miss me and he can't go about telling me. I am letting him make the decisions,going out,which we started doing again and emailing. I miss him so much and I have told his dad and he knows how I feel about his son.We got along really well and he told me to call or write anytime.I sent him an Easter card and when my ex went up there last weekend,he came home and emailed me a long letter when he said he was really tired. I think you just have to let them go and see what they are missing,even though it hurts and hope for the best. Things will work out if they are supposed to and having a positive outlook does help. I realized mind over matter,negative thoughts just get in the way of a relationship getting better and renewing itself. Good luck and I hope things work out the way you want them to. Link to post Share on other sites
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