frenchgirl Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 On and off, I'd been seeing this guy for almost two months. We hung out 3-4 times a week at his pad and yes, I did have sex with him. He kept suggesting that we should become a couple so at some point I gave in and asked whether he'd like to be exclusive. He reacted by saying he needed a breather for a few days. Then the next day he misses me but doesn't want to see me. I'm being used, right??
1yearmarriage Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 Yes. Don't fall for this old trick. I know it hurts and is very disappointing. But, your best revenge is to show self-esteem, not answer his call and have him not to hear from you again. What you earn from this? Experience. Learn from this and it should not happen again or at least not for a long time.
dispatch3d Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 ? can't tell. When he comes around see if he's looking for a relationship or not. If not, go from there.
Sazerac Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 It does not matter. He already used her for sex. His goal was accomplished. True, but the pitcher quite often goes back to the well. Ignoring him if he comes skeezing around again is the best advice.
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