inandouttalove Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 NC the thought that ur ex will call doesnt always work because if they have someone new in their life and clearly they have moved on you will not hear from them so their is no chance to reconcile and also if you appear too needy or clingy by calling and texting alot when they just drop off the face of the earth again it will push them away even more. has anyone ever had an ex call them when they werenewly involved with another? do you think ur ex ever misses you or thinks of you when they have someone new hmm? I havent spoken to my ex in 3 wks he just up and left i believe in my heart he has someone new. If he did call I would think it would be kind of awkward not knowing excatly how to act or what to say we couldnt just pick right up where we left off after he hurt me like this. no explanation just vanished. I didnt cheat i did nothing wrong he just never called anymore. I had a moment of weakness where i called his phone last wk and i heard him pick up and click to hang up, so I know he doesnt wanna talk to me there is no more I can do.I miss him dearly yet im angry towards him for treating me like this.I at least deserved a reason. I tried my best at this relationship I gave him my all and in return got hung up on. go figure! im just venting ..................................
batsheba Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 NC always works out, it is just that right now i think you are still having hopes of reconciliation or maybe still in the middle of a change of not having him anymore. as for ex's missing us, i am sure at one point they do. but do not take action on it. so do the same. go NC and days like this when it hits you, try to keep yourself busy. NC is the way to go.
ItsRainingAgain Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 NC is very hard, wasn't it harder for you to call him and hear the "click"? Just remember that next time you feel the urge to break NC. I know for me over 4 weeks ago before I started NC was horrible when I called him and he said some awfull things that didn't make any sence..then hung up on me...when I feel the urge to break NC I remember that day. I will not break it. And you shouldn't either. Very hard day for me today...today would of been the one year mark we first met....does he remember...does he miss me...does he even think about me....I guess I will never know. So many questions....
GivenUp0083 Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 Maybe he's waiting for you to learn how to write in complete sentences. Some people can't handle a lack of punctuation.
WTRanger Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 NC is not for reconciliation. It's for you and you alone.
Rafaela Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 Honestly i am in the same situation but kinda different i am trying to break up and he is still calling me back. my point is not if he calls you back means he is faithful in you love maybe just attached to a beautiful memory that you guys shared before. be stronger and keep in mind that the world doesnt stop under his feet
2011 Posted June 16, 2011 Posted June 16, 2011 It can only go one way if you stick to NC because it is about healing really that is the main purpose, yeah your ex may have contacted to try FZ or satisfy curiousity if the thought you might have been worth it but I think most don't. With my own situation I thought my ex would break but 6 months later nothing so I was not healing but hoping and being desperate but am now starting to do it right, I deleted all her contacts, online etc and trying to move on. Actually I get annoyed with myself for pining over such a hopeless person for so long, why waste so much of my life on this - really? 2011
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