Cheem Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 Hello Quick run-down I split up with my girlfriend of nearly 5 years at the end of last year. We had a great time together for the first few years then became nasty to each other and quarrelled all the time. I just had enough and broke it off. I wanted to live a little, meet new women, she was very upset. I didn't want to lose contact with her as she was my best friend, we had bared our souls, I have told her things I haven't told anyone else and still knew I would love her company as a friend. So we hung out a few times. She was a little upset still at the start then she seemed OK, started seeing someone etc Anyway Soon after we broke up i started seeing a new girl treated me well, showed me affection and generally enjoyed being with me. I am still seeing her but realise that there's nothing really there between us, no spark, no chemistry. I realise that I was enjoying all the things that I didn't get from my ex in the last year or so of our r/s. I don't want my ex back, I still just want to be mates (it has worked out quite well and I am def over her), but neither do I want to continue my present relationship. Problem is my current gf and I see each other everyday at work. Breaking up with her will be difficult and I would miss the company. If we broke up I am likely to fill the gap with friends and my ex is a friend. I don't want to spend too much time with her as I know I will fall for her again as we just 'click'. What to do?
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