i don't know how to tell her..help

[stuckonmax]

well, me and this girl max....we meet through my best friend, we all go to same school.....but anywasy on to my question.. wel me and this girl max we have been hanging out alot lately and i've told her that i've liked her over the internet and stuff because we really don't have much time to talk one on one to each other and so the only time we really have time to talk is over the internet.. but a couple years ago when she was 15 she was rapped and had miscarriage and then after that happened she got really involved with this guy that was really nice to her in the beginning and then ended doing some mean stuff to her.... and all her previouse boy friends were pretty much the same....being a dick...cheating... bad stuff like that and all of them had been older then her too, so when ever i would tell her how much i liked her she wouldn't believe...she said she thinks im just trying to get in her pants...which i don't blame her for thinking but it's not true and we've talked over the phone about this also and i've tried tell her thats not what it is..i just want to be with her, thats it, i couldn't care less if i got in her pants becuase she is such a cool person once u start to get to know her... and it's just one of those realationships where it doesn't matter what we are doing we could still have fun no matter what.....but my question is how would i got about telling her in person how i feel towards her....she also tries to push people away...not trying to get to close becasue she doesn't want to get hurt... but when we first started talking about going out i was to nerves to tell her at all and so my best friends girl friend told her that i liked her..so we ended talking about it over the internet and she asked me y i haven't asked her and i told her becuase i wasn't sure if she liked me back...im one of those guy that don't think it's worth the heart ack to even ask if theres a chance she'll say no. but i took some chances and asked her out twice first time i asked her after school...bad timing but she said sure, so i said that would take that back and ask her out agian..so about 3 days later i was over at her house and we were hangout and and then i was getting ready to leave and we were in the door way of the house and asked her again and she said that she would have to think about....so, about a week later i asked her if she had thought about and she told me that she juts wants to be friends right now but she will change her...she's still trying to get over her ex....so i was fine with that i didn't want to push her...so about a month later (now)she stated bring going out back up and i told her that i've already told her how i felt towards her and it's her deciesion and this is when she start being up all this i just want to get in her pants thing.... there is alot more to this but i think i should just give ya jist of my problem...i've done things to show her i care, but i don't think she really picked up on them as a caring thing but maybe just as a something a friend would just do...?.... but lately it seems that she not really interested in me..or it's just that she feels that im trying to get something out of her.. so she been pushing me away a little so i was woundering if anybody here could help with figuring out a way to tell her in person how i feel about...or show her

[ThisGirlNameKD]

It really doesn't matter when you tell her, where you tell her or how you tell her. Telling her is not going to change her feelings. You can't make someone do what they want to do, even if it's good for them. If she say she just wants to be friends now, accept that. If you can't, move on.

[stuckonmax]

yea well she was the one telling me to tell her i how feel...she just didn't want to read on the screen...it's not so beleiveable that way