airjordan Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 Hello Everyone, Its been awhile since I've posted here. Anyways, I've been seeing this girl for about a month now. I broke up with her yesterday because I found out that she still hangs out with her ex bf. She told me that they are just friends. The thing that bothers me is that she didn't tell me that they would go out. So I broke it off because she kept it from me. She says it doesn't mean anything to her when they go out because they are just friends. Do you guys think I did the right think in breaking it off? I really like her but I feel that should could be hiding more things down the road.
Pasttense Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 I think you should have asked for advice here before you broke it off, rather than after. Everyone makes mistakes in communicating from time to time, so I think you should have given her a second chance.
HappyPanda Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 I agree with the other response here... that you shouldve given the girl another chance... Youve only been dating for a month? Have you even spoken about what your comfort levels regarding exes or members of the opposite sex are... I suppose it depends on how long ago her and this guy broke up as to whether or not I think its appropriate... if it was right before she started dating you, Id second guess the motives. If it was 5 years ago and both parties have moved on, Id be less apt to get jealous. I know that I am really good friends with one of my exes... but that is completely it. Really good friends. There are no residual feelings there... I was upfront with my boyfriend about my relationship with him from the get go, and he understands... They've even met before.
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