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I know a girl (A) who I'm kind of interested in getting to know better.

 

Girl B is her good friend. Girl C is MY good friend. Well, Girl C's boyfriend is good friends with Girl B.

 

Girl B told Girl C's boyfriend that she thinks I like Girl A.

 

Boyfriend told his girlfriend, Girl C, naturally.

 

And Girl C, being MY good friend, told me what Girl B had said.

 

Is it safe to assume Girl B also told her friend Girl A that I may possibly be interested in her?

 

And if so, I see that Girl A is still friendly around me and in fact inviting me to "be more a part of her world/community." Girl A is naturally super nice and friendly, so I don't know how to take it. Is she just being friendly, interested, or a bit of both?

 

I'm pretty sure Girl B told Girl A that I like her. I guess it could only be a good sign if Girl A is still friendly around me, right? I mean, if she didn't like the idea of me liking her AT ALL, surely she would keep her distance from me.

 

Any thoughts? (and how do you know when a girl really likes you, and isn't just being friendly?)

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I need to diagram this so I can understand the question better. This reminds me of word problems in math class. :laugh:

 

Yes, I think it's safe to assume Girl B told Girl A that you like her. If Girl B is telling Girl C's boyfriend then why wouldn't she tell her own friend (Girl A) the same thing?

Is that so bad though?

 

How to tell if she's interested? This is a hard question. People struggle with this. Some girls are so friendly and sweet that it's hard to tell if they're just being nice or if they're interested. If she treats only you that way then she might be interested.

 

The easiest way is to ask her. The worst is she'll say she's not into you that way and you can move on to the next girl.

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I know a girl (A) who I'm kind of interested in getting to know better.

 

Ask A on a date. Everything else is superfluous.

 

Yes, girlfriends talk to each other about everything, including the size of your dick if it gets that far. I was constantly amazed by how much my exW's GF's knew about me ;)

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The easiest way is to ask her. The worst is she'll say she's not into you that way and you can move on to the next girl.

 

 

We are hanging out 1 on 1 next month, but it's certainly not a date. It's a "meet up" where we'll be talking about our faith.

 

I honestly don't think now is the right time to ask her out on a date. I can get to know her slowly in group settings. I last got rejected September 2010 and promised myself and God I'd wait one year to at least get my heart right again. I know that might sound corny, but I want to stick with that decree.

 

I think the 1 on 1 walk with her will allow me to know a bit more about her and see what kind of possible match we would make.

 

I see her every week at church so I honestly don't think there's much need for urgency. In fact, in the past when I moved too fast with other girls, it always blew up in my face.

 

If you're meant to be with someone, it'll happen naturally. I believe that. I also believe, yes, Girl B told Girl A her gut feelings. Girl A's still very friendly to me, so I believe that to be a good sign :)

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