sehzademsin4 Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 ellerinize saglik guzel bir baylasim olmus cok thenks
Author youngskywalker Posted June 15, 2011 Author Posted June 15, 2011 you need to be careful in the conversation. also, it is NOT one to have just before getting hot and heavy in the bedroom - talk about it in a neutral environment, without the prospect of sex occurring soon after. I'll take your advice on that. Can't hurt. Some say it can be fixed, some don't. Either way I'm going to give it my best shot. Maybe there is a pot of gold in the end.
bac Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 Let her know about your concerns. If she does not want to change, you can not do anything about it. You are too different. You are mostly loooking for sex but she is looking for emotional/intellectual connection. She is a girl for freindship or for getting married and making kids. She is not a girl for hot sex because she is not into sex.
Dusk1983 Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 (edited) I agree this is one thing that doesn't change. Some people just 'get' sex in a totally different way. I've had girlfriends where I tried to encourage them into stuff they didn't naturally want, and it never worked. But when you find a girl that loves sex - really, truly loves sex - it is like nothing on earth. My new girl has to be the most passionate girl I've ever met and has re-defined what sex is and what it means to me. Truly, my experiences with previous partners now just seems stilted and staid, like something other than sex. She is one that can feel orgasmic with the most minimal contact, lets go completely, and after orgasm remains so overwhelmed by the experience - physically and emotionally - that it makes me feel more alive than I ever have in my life. I have never experienced anything like it. As you've been feeling in reverse OP, her being like that she makes me more of a man, more passionate, more tender, more confident, more everything. That's what a perfect sexual connection does. It's much more than just the physical act. I think everyone deserves the same, and you shouldn't pretend otherwise. Edited June 15, 2011 by Dusk1983
Intergalactic Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 Let her know about your concerns. If she does not want to change, you can not do anything about it. You are too different. You are mostly loooking for sex but she is looking for emotional/intellectual connection. She is a girl for freindship or for getting married and making kids. She is not a girl for hot sex because she is not into sex. since when is sex and emotional/intellectual connection in a relationship mutually exclusive? and since when does getting married and having children with a person mean that there might not be hot sex? if you get married to someone and you don't have a healthy and compatible sex life, you can pretty much expect that marriage to fall apart.
bac Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 since when is sex and emotional/intellectual connection in a relationship mutually exclusive? and since when does getting married and having children with a person mean that there might not be hot sex? if you get married to someone and you don't have a healthy and compatible sex life, you can pretty much expect that marriage to fall apart. And, the rate of divorce of more than 60% is factual confirmation of the sexual incompatability in the marriages. Also, there are no research which proved that the rest (40%) of marriages are doing great because of their sexual compatability. IMO it is probably because some couples just do not give a f....k for sex but they do care for their financial and social security.
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