cjd Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 Time is not healing my wounds, if anything I am feeling worse by the day! My ex left me over 3 months ago. She won't talk to me anymore. I am doing all the things I should be, going out with friends, working out, keeping active etc......but she is literally on my mind 24/7. Even when I'm trying to stay occupied, I can't help but think of her. Honestly, I feel lost and empty without her. I am so miserable and nothing seems fun without her there. I can't see how things are going to get better. I'm so tired emotionally and I just want all this to end. I just want to be free of any thoughts of her. But iv run out of idea's. Things should be getting better by now, but as I say, I'm just feeling worse and worse. Any idea's?
uplifted2 Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 I know how you feel. I have been in your position before when the woman I loved left me and she didnt even have the decency to speak with me after she broke it off and I couldnt eat or sleep for months and I tried going out , but I was just unhappy, but you have to get through this. In fact, you will get through this. I would recommend for you to volunteer somehwere where someone would really appreciate you like the Boys and Girls Club or a senior citizen home. Turn your heartache into happiness for someone less fortunate because making others happy will make you happy and then one day, you will meet a woman who will love you for life. Do not listen to any negative comments. YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS!!!!!!!
Author cjd Posted June 14, 2011 Author Posted June 14, 2011 Thanks mate, I really appreciate the support. It just seems so hard right now that's all. It literally feels like I am craving her and it's not a healthy feeling
uplifted2 Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 Im going throught the same thing right now, we just have to realize that its just not our time yet and if she wasn't the one for you, then the woman out there is even beyond what you want! I want to call, text, check my ex facebook and twitter so bad, but there is nothing good that can happen from that and I have to accept that in order to move on. Everything will work out for you.
2011 Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 Cjd Don't panic this is normal around the 2-3 month period, you will only start becoming your own self again after about 5 months that's how long it took me. I could not stop thinking about her either it is just withdrawal symptoms. Keep doing what you are doing and it will get better I promise you that. 2011
Author cjd Posted June 15, 2011 Author Posted June 15, 2011 It feels nearly as bad as day 1. I am getting the same anxiety attacks that I did when we first broke up. It's horrible.
Adi Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 Ya itts normal about the five month mark you will start too feel good, then you will prob have some more bad times then get back up, but it gets easier and easier done with 3 ex now and each time thought i would never get there lol
sunshine103 Posted June 16, 2011 Posted June 16, 2011 Just stay strong and keep busy. Is she with someone else? If so, then just let her be and realize that what you two had wasn't that special if she moved onto another relationship so quick. Why she broke up with you?
lovesickmonkey Posted June 16, 2011 Posted June 16, 2011 Well, if anything, know that you're in good company. I'm another one. I think it's nearing the end when I have a good day, then a day like today comes where I can't stop thinking about her. And I'm sad about not having her. And I'm so, so, so very angry with her for everything. For planning to dump me behind my back, for being vicious about how she did it, for never suggesting we work on anything, for being absolutely certain she never wanted to go back. I just can't let it go. And she works in the same little town as me so when I wander around I'm thinking she's driving by. And the thought of the next guy is what makes me the most agitated. I'm in the second month and some days it feels like it was yesterday. And I get mad when I think how she was preparing way ahead of time ... woking up a healthy disgust for me and planning on making tracks and I was oblivious until the moment she told me. It is hard, hard, hard to move beyond it. And I also have to be content with having no answers to the million questions. And i have to live with the engagement ring that I worked weeks and weeks for. It seems like too much to ask of me most days.
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