cjyoung1993 Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 My ex of 3.5 years of relationship has been completely insensitive during the break up and lead me on for several months she's smart and cute which makes it worse for me. It's been a month since the complete break off and I am doin better. My friend just informed me she was with another guy qt our school from another school, who was in the picture when we broke up/ could be a big part of why we did... I dont like her anymore I just can't shake the thought of her with him and in general just the thought of her. I was doing really well until now WHen will I stop caring cause this sucks!!
smudge21 Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 2 months NC here (bar a little step back recently) and I'm wondering the same thing. I know it does stop. I know there will be a time when the ex will mean nothing to me and I'll look back on all this hurt and it will be hard to believe I actually felt like this, but until that day, I just got to suffer through it.
stopthemadness Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 Well it stiill brothers us because we are human, thats why. Its gona bother us for a little while. Iam almost comming up on one year sence my breakup (wow! one intense year)and I stiill have issues. My therapist says its all very personal. All of us will heal on our own time, and all the healing steps will happen at different times too. But really really, am better and for the most part am getting over "him". Some times I day dream about falling in love again. Ya, he still pops in my head at least once a day. But I just keep it too myself. Suffer in silence (am kidding) at just anit that serious..Hang in there. Time will heal your broken heart what it to or not..
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