GG3 Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 Has anyone here tried to date someone who makes their friends a priority to the point that you get the leftover time? I'm pretty busy and like my time, so I enjoy my freedom. But sometimes I feel like I get the "leftover" time he has. He makes plans with friends first. Sometimes it's the whole weekend. Friday night happy hour with the guys, Saturday boat, and Sunday golf. I'm trying to decide if I want to be in a relationship with someone who needs THAT much time with friends. I also don't feel like there is much energy leftover to do activities with me. Sidenote: I don't have out with him and some of these friends because I'm not that fond of them and he is okay with that.
Author GG3 Posted June 14, 2011 Author Posted June 14, 2011 We are trying to date after years together and split up for 8 months. This is not a new situation.
Professor X Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 We are trying to date after years together and split up for 8 months. This is not a new situation. So why did you break up in the first place? If you don't mind me asking. Just feels like you broke up for this very same reason. And if it's not new, why do you persist dating this man? BTW, have you talked to him about it? It's in your rights, if you claim to have known him for years prior + dating him.
Author GG3 Posted June 14, 2011 Author Posted June 14, 2011 Multiple issues. But that really isn't what I want to discuss here. I want to decide how I feel about this issue. I don't think I would like this with someone I am even "just friends" with. I'm curious to know if anyone else has dated someone like this.
Author GG3 Posted June 14, 2011 Author Posted June 14, 2011 Can you direct me to one of P&R's threads? I can't find it.
Ouroboros Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/search.php?do=finduser&u=96759&starteronly=1
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