irc333 Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 I had recently become acquainted with a woman that I know through a circle of friends, she's in her late 40's, and into the same kind of activities as I am. To note we DO know each other from REAL life...but we're on FB too, and I was chatting and getting to know her more, and would even flirt with her. Eventually she asked for MY number and she gave me her's (another PLUS, because I didn't have to ask for it...a WOMAN asking for man's number is a BIG deal, as I'm sure you will agree) She's been broken up with this man for about a year now, but not entirely over him. She hangs out with men she's known through the years through these social circles, but makes it clear it's only going out as friends. I was talking with her on the phone and she mentioned this one guy she's been hanging out with is totally "smitten" with her, and she's had to tell him on several occasions that "they're just friends", but he still "orbits" regardless. It's got me curious as to these other men she's been spendign time with one on one. She's spending time trying to get over, but is just hanging out with other guys...which is good I suppose. BUT....I'm wondering how she thinks of me? I mean is she honestly "FZ'ing" ALL the men until she is ready to date?
vsmini Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 She has a male harem thing going on. Guarantee she uses it for validation and attention. RED FLAG ALERT: I was talking with her on the phone and she mentioned this one guy she's been hanging out with is totally "smitten" with her, and she's had to tell him on several occasions that "they're just friends", but he still "orbits" regardless. If a guy that I'm not interested in shows interest in me, even after I've told him "let's be friends" then I have to let him go. I'm not leading some guy on at the expense of my ego. Your girl is pulling the ultimate BullSh*t move.
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