Sugarkane Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 After being royally screwed over by my ex and been through a bad breakup. I tried seeing other people, but have been unsucessful. It didn't work out for different reasons. Guy #1 was immature and didn't know what he wanted. I was sick and tired of his games and didn't want to be fallback girl. He was always off and on about us. So we brokeup. Guy #2 left to go back home interstate, before our relationship could even develop [partly my mistake for getting involoved with him]. Naggs me to move for him, but I'm not in love with him. Asked me to move in with him, after I grieved for the short relationship. Bad timing. Yet I have to put up with a coworker constantly saying she wants to marry the boyfriend, who she has been with since high school.
Eeyore79 Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 Yet I have to put up with a coworker constantly saying she wants to marry the boyfriend, who she has been with since high school. And you think she's luckier than you? She's been with this guy for god knows how many years, and he still hasn't proposed - lucky her! I don't envy anyone who's in an LTR with a man who doesn't want to marry them. Unfortunately you have to kiss quite a few frogs before you find a prince. It seems that you've now mastered the skill of ending unsuitable relationships fairly quickly so you can move on - this is an extremely good thing. After the last guy I had feelings for, I went through three bad relationships in two years before I found the lovely man I'm dating now. I know it's hard, but you just have to keep looking and be ruthless about quickly getting out of a bad relationship and moving on.
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