alexa137 Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 at what point do you remove your dating site profile? been seeing a guy for a month and really getting feelings and thinking(at least) by what he says and how he acts that hes into me to. i havent looked at mine, plentyoffish and zoosk, for a few weeks and when i logged in today I noticed that he logged in today need some opinions thx
oaks Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 If you've had a conversation with him along the lines of "i'm not seeing anyone else or looking for anyone else at the moment. Are you?" and if he said "no, I'm not" then you can ask him when the right moment is (or suggest that it's now).
Author alexa137 Posted June 13, 2011 Author Posted June 13, 2011 well i asked him last night, where this is going and what are we donig? and he said he wants me, andi said how and he said in every way possible i get feelings quick and this is the first guy ive actually dated and spent time with in almost 5 years its moving fast also!
NoReallyThatHappened Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 If it's a good relationship you should be able to ask him how he feels about only dating each other. You both have to be honest with each other. If you want to take your profile down, tell him that, and then see how he feels.
Intergalactic Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 well i asked him last night, where this is going and what are we donig? and he said he wants me, andi said how and he said in every way possible this isn't enough. if you want to be exclusive, ask him if he's ready for that or if it's something he wants. if not, you'll need to be okay with him potentially dating others or at least being in touch via online dating sites or you'll need to break it off. but you definitely need to ask in a direct way, and not some ambiguous "where are we going?" type thing - there are a number of ways to give a roundabout answer to that, all of which don't tie him to anything. he may very well want you in every way possible... he might also want some other girls in every way possible as well.
Ghosst Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 I agree with Intergalatic. His response was vague and needs to be clarified. At this early stage in the relationship I don't think I would be deleting the profile but rather put it on hide until at least three months in.
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