angel_tenniser Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 one of my best friend ive known for 3 years as a top 3-5 friend and now he talksabout my underwear and dirty things. i already have a boyfriend + i only saw my friend as a friend. what is the best solution pleas?
Royal Guy Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 Hi, Obviously if you actually love your BF and don't want to cheat on him, draw a line and show that to your friend, if he still insists, you must know how to go NC. Try not to cheat, it hurts. I actually didn't get the question, if you are really into your BF, why even give that guy a second thought?
Jonesonaboat Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 Tell you friend your uncomfortable with it, and that he's crossing a line.
Author angel_tenniser Posted June 13, 2011 Author Posted June 13, 2011 (edited) Tell him to screw off LOL its hard to be mean Tell you friend your uncomfortable with it, and that he's crossing a line. OK will do Hi, Obviously if you actually love your BF and don't want to cheat on him, draw a line and show that to your friend, if he still insists, you must know how to go NC. Try not to cheat, it hurts. I actually didn't get the question, if you are really into your BF, why even give that guy a second thought? but i mean what should i do about my friend should i break apart he friendship or still be friends,. been close for 3 years i hugged him every greeting. my teacher said to be friends before love. my boyfriend was not my friend before. thats the only confusing thing Edited June 13, 2011 by angel_tenniser
Royal Guy Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 but i mean what should i do about my friend should i break apart he friendship or still be friends,. been close for 3 years i hugged him every greeting. my teacher said to be friends before love. my boyfriend was not my friend before. thats the only confusing thing Please read again whatever you wrote. I know Best Friends make good love couple but isn't always true, and angel trust me it hurts a lot when such relations break as you lose two people and not one. From your words it seems you do have something for your friend as well.
Author angel_tenniser Posted June 13, 2011 Author Posted June 13, 2011 Please read again whatever you wrote. I know Best Friends make good love couple but isn't always true, and angel trust me it hurts a lot when such relations break as you lose two people and not one. From your words it seems you do have something for your friend as well. yep really close to him! my boyfriend is close too but in the kissing manner
sun_moon Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 your playing with fire all parties, all 3 of you, will lose in the end.
Royal Guy Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 Sun_moon is correct, try to settle for one or you will lose both of them.
Author angel_tenniser Posted June 14, 2011 Author Posted June 14, 2011 ok well just stay with my boyfriend and be friends with my friend but i always hug my friend during greetings which is tricky now.
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