Author celldweller454 Posted June 21, 2011 Author Posted June 21, 2011 If the other guy has finished with her dont weaken and take her back. Im not saying once a cheater always a cheater but I think in her case history will repeat itself. Good luck mate. Your probably right. While I do love her and miss her like crazy at the same time I don't want to experience this kind of pain ever again. It's painful enough just when she comes over knowing that we aren't together anymore I keep hearing I should be angry and the truth is I'm not. I'm just really sad about it honestly. When she's level I know what kind of person she is and that's the person I miss. Whether this is caused by her bi polar disorder I don't know it may just be that she got tired of us and wanted something else that we couldn't give her.
OldOnTheInside Posted June 22, 2011 Posted June 22, 2011 (edited) It is a shame, but there are risks involved when starting a relationship with a person who has any mental illness. Not that I'm victimising her-BD isn't a solid excuse for her actions. On an up note because I'm a glutton for punishment I took a look at her latest posts on facebook. Her status is still married and she made a post that said she wishes that whatever this thing inside of me that frightens everyone away would let her know peace and then another that says the world takes everything from her and leaves her on the side of the road.Sad. She knows she has a problem but doesn't do anything about it (there's quite a few possible reasons for this). I don't doubt that she is feeling just as bad as you do. Probably worse. She knows that she is the instigator of her own misery, and the misery of others... You already know what you have to do. I would offer my condolences but I doubt that would mean much. Edited June 22, 2011 by OldOnTheInside
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