ahoy Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 Basically after me and my ex split, a prior ex started to get into contact again. We split mutually as we moved away from each other. We stayed in contact until I got together with my most recent ex, she disappeared. Now that's over, she's speaking to me again. I've explained to her multiple times that although I had fun in our previous relationship I'm trying to stay single and spend time with my friends and going on the lad's holidays that relationships deprive you of - however, at least once a week, she seems to forget everything I said about wanting to be single and edge our conversations into something more (even if she just suggests casual sex). I don't want to use her as a back-up plan/one night stand whenever I have the urge, I don't want to be an ******* to her and tell her to **** off, but I also don't want to repeat myself a million times. How can I make her understand that I am enjoying being single at the minute, focusing on my career and all that jazz without being "nasty" to her?
PegNosePete Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 How can I make her understand that I am enjoying being single at the minute, focusing on my career and all that jazz without being "nasty" to her? Dude. She understands alright. Why are you so worried about being nasty to her when she is trying so hard to manipulate you? She knows exactly what you've told her. You don't need to repeat yourself. Women have very good memories. Tell her that you will never think of her romantically and if she does not stop talking/asking/begging then you cannot continue the friendship. And mean it!
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