johnnathan Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 Hello everyone, currently I'm debating weather or not going full NC with my ex, or maintaining a good freindship but not initiating contact ever (what I've been doing) Basically I got really upset when my ex started seeing someone else, went no contact for a while and when I felt I was ready I contacted her and we started hanging out again. I still had feelings for her, but It didn't bother me that she was with him anymore. I started gaining control after this, she heard that I was going out to dates with this other girl and suddenly became very jealous. I never text or call her first, she would always with me to make plans and it was clear she still had feelings for me. Tonight we actually had a heart to heart about everything for the first time, she still has feelings for me and "truly believes we will end up together", also claiming that currently she is not happy. I don't think she wants to leave the rebound yet, but I don't know where to go from here. I'm defiantly strong enough to do limited contact, I see pictures of them kissing a lot and It doesn't really bother me, plus it really bothers the other guy that her and I are still friends. And I could also work it about the other girls I may be seeing, with the hopes of her realizing I'm capable of being without her. That being said, if I went NC I feel as if she would just forget about me and I would loose my chance all together. I'm so unsure and some advice would be lovely :|
PegNosePete Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 Dude she is talking SH*T. If she truly believed you'd end up together then she would be with you. But she is not, she is with someone else. So that proves she is compeltely full of sh*t, she's just trying to keep you hanging on the line while she has her fun. NC dude.
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