ConfusedGuy28 Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 So I've already posted on the girl from Match whom I've been talking with. We're meeting up for drinks this weekend (I suggested coffee, she said how about drinks instead) So anyways - she calls me Wednesday night and we talk for a little over 2 hours. Would have spoken more, but her phone died and she kept losing reception when she plugged it in. So I texted her that we'd talk later and it was nice talking to her. Thursday - sent a quick msg on fb about something I couldn't say on the phone (something this guy did to me, and he was over when I was on the phone, so i couldn't bring it up) Friday - text her and just say hope you have a nice weekend and drive safe (she was headed out of town) Sunday - I get back from my own trip (8 hr drive) and call her. She's always been up at this time in the past - no answer. Which is fine, probably fell asleep early after getting back, etc, whatever. ------- Now - we haven't met yet. But what's with the no response to anything. Not even "hey, got in safe. have a good weekend yourself!" These little things bug me for some reason. Bug me on a 2 on a 10 scale. Sure, she doesn't "owe" me anything, but we've been talking for a couple of weeks now - and at the very least - common courtesy should mean something. Since she gave me the "I don't want to be tied down to some guy I only know from phone conversations" I've since been talking with 4 other women on match (3 contacted me - all after she said that, funny how things work like that lol). Am I doing anything wrong? I don't text her (she takes too long to respond) and I don't call that often (because she never answers when I do). So - if she makes the effort to call I talk - and whenever she calls, we end up talking for hours. I'm not saying what she is doing is "wrong" - but is this behavior to be expected from people who've only been talking for a couple of weeks and have yet to meet up?
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